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Q for female subs - Which punishment?

I agree with fluffypoppet. To be dumped is not a punishment. If the infraction is that bad, then there is no punishment. It's just over.

Punishments need to be agreed upon before the dynamic even ...

Wed Dec 18, 2024 10:41 am • 70 Replies • 25032 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Maledom

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Q for female subs - Which punishment?

Frustrated

It sounds to me like he may have changed his mind about what he is okay with. Maybe at first he kind of liked the idea and then realized he wasn't as okay with it as he thought he was. Now he doesn't ...

Sun Dec 15, 2024 8:18 am • 31 Replies • 8070 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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Frustrated

What is Subspace, and Is It Normal to Feel Sad or Anxious in It?

While in it, I would say, in general no, you should not be feeling sad. Afterwards yes, that is possible fallout from being high, in a transcendent state of being that play can take you. This is calle ...

Sat Dec 14, 2024 2:31 am • 9 Replies • 2296 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Lifestyle BDSM

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What is Subspace, and Is It Normal to Feel Sad or Anxious in It?

I agree with dollMaker. I would also add that it is natural for you to feel both sad and anxious after a punishment. It's natural for you to feel sad that you disappointed your dominant or displeased ...

Fri Dec 13, 2024 9:56 pm • 9 Replies • 2296 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

What is Subspace, and Is It Normal to Feel Sad or Anxious in It?

Stigmatized Vocations

I don't judge a person by their job or their income, but I do ask about their job as one of my very first vetting questions. It gives me an instant snapshot into the person's inner landscape, what the ...

Wed Dec 04, 2024 8:09 am • 13 Replies • 2976 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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Stigmatized Vocations

Tips on setting personal boundaries?

I'm just going to come right out and say it. I personally don't believe that this site is the right place for you. I personally feel that you need to get some therapy. I'm telling you this from a plac ...

Tue Dec 03, 2024 11:47 am • 14 Replies • 3265 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Tips on setting personal boundaries?

Struggling with accountability as a single sub

So I'm sure a lot of single subs can relate to this. I'm struggling with holding myself accountable and staying on task with everything I have to do. Having a dominant tell me what to do makes it so m ...

Tue Dec 03, 2024 1:54 am • 7 Replies • 1271 Views

Author

B L O N D I E

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Struggling with accountability as a single sub

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello everyone. I'm new here and still learning to navigate the site. One thing I haven't seen yet is an actual group chat room about different topics. I saw what looked like a general chat room ...

Sun Dec 01, 2024 8:17 pm • 3357 Replies • 1568975 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

True Slave Training Is .....

I think you have to remember that a lot of self-proclaimed slaves want that to be the end goal--to only be treated as a sex object. I identify as a slave and I recently communicated with someone who h ...

Mon Nov 25, 2024 10:08 pm • 28 Replies • 6453 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

True Slave Training Is .....

Jeeze

Do you know the amount of time and effort it takes to come across as a fake dom?

My god it is exausting

Topeka absolutely crushed this thread.

Mon Nov 25, 2024 1:46 am • 36 Replies • 7981 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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Jeeze