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After some advice

It's extremely important when going into any kind of D/s situation that you keep your guard up and protect yourself from literally everything. The amount of caution you would exercise in a normal dati ...

Sun Jun 21, 2026 12:21 am • 7 Replies • 549 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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After some advice

Paid Dominatrixes

I have also seen examples of paid male dominants.

Wed Jun 17, 2026 8:26 am • 14 Replies • 2950 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Femdom

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Paid Dominatrixes

My kinks are beginning to scare me

From what I've heard, it will take you quite a bit of time to find the right bull anyway. You will probably get more clarity in that time to know if this is right or not.

Tue Oct 07, 2025 7:30 pm • 12 Replies • 3364 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Femdom

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My kinks are beginning to scare me

Re: My kinks are beginning to scare me

my wife and I have been engaging in bdsm off and on for two years. it was originally my idea, and she has gotten very comfortable being the dominant one. For instance, I have been in chastity for 93 d ...

Tue Oct 07, 2025 12:43 am • 12 Replies • 3364 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Femdom

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My kinks are beginning to scare me

Enmeshment

I absolutely disagree with your definition of what it means to be a slave. No one can dictate what a slave is, how much ego or personality they have, how they are referred to, or if they have a right ...

Sat Jan 25, 2025 6:44 pm • 19 Replies • 4826 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Enmeshment

Advice

Thank you, your absolutely right
I didn't disqualify the person because he said he worked a lot which i understood but at this point, i think its safe to assume he probably is only interested in the ...

Sat Jan 25, 2025 8:58 am • 21 Replies • 4825 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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Advice

This is my person take on your situation. ANY reluctance to communicate is an instant disqualification for me. I understand people have jobs, families, and lives. I don't expect an instant answer. The ...

Sat Jan 25, 2025 6:01 am • 21 Replies • 4825 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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Advice

Enmeshment

Fri Jan 24, 2025 3:43 am • 19 Replies • 4826 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Enmeshment

How to help spinning sub

I just remembered. Another technique you can have her do is focus intently on what she imagines is the absolute worst case scenario if whatever it is actually happens. Then have her walk through the s ...

Fri Jan 10, 2025 10:34 pm • 21 Replies • 4245 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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How to help spinning sub

Teach her some guided relaxation, body scan, progressive relaxation, visualization, and meditation/focus techniques. I have been teaching these to my kids for years and use them on myself. What she's ...

Fri Jan 10, 2025 10:30 pm • 21 Replies • 4245 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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How to help spinning sub