The Partners That Come Before “Him”

It sounds to me like what happened to "SubmissiveMe" is that she originally did not share with her partner any set desire for commitment (monogamy), but as the relationship grew, she may have begun to ...

Sat Dec 01, 2018 9:40 pm • 21 Replies • 10718 Views

The Partners That Come Before “Him”

MasterBear you are right. He turned out to be kind of a false Dom. No negotiations. No aftercare. BDSM seemed like less a lifestyle and more a vehicle to control a sexual relationship. “Don’t question ...

Tue Oct 30, 2018 8:01 am • 21 Replies • 10718 Views

The Partners That Come Before “Him”

Thank you all for your replies. It’s nice to have other points of view.

Since this post I’ve found our style and desires to be incompatible and broken off the association. I’m not the sort who enj ...

Mon Oct 29, 2018 6:34 am • 21 Replies • 10718 Views

The Partners That Come Before “Him”

Thank you for the thoughtful replies.

I will say it’s just been a month. He is just out of a 10 year relationship and that takes time to recoup from so I have no expectations of commitment. I’m ju ...

Mon Oct 08, 2018 7:56 am • 21 Replies • 10718 Views

The Partners That Come Before “Him”

Thank you. I’ve actually done just that. We’ll see.

I guess I’m wondering what is more common. Maybe I don’t fully understand usual dynamics. Though I know one size fits all is a myth

Mon Oct 08, 2018 2:28 am • 21 Replies • 10718 Views

The Partners That Come Before “Him”

Thank you for taking the time to read this post. I’m fairly new to the lifestyle. Really only been exploring in my local community actively just under a year, though I’ve been searching for the Domina ...

Mon Oct 08, 2018 1:21 am • 21 Replies • 10718 Views