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Gen Z Femsub thoughts

I think the sharp rejection comes from a couple things.
1. The fact that there is a faction of people that wants it to be mandatory for everyone.
2. There are a lot of men who are simply incompet ...

Sat May 02, 2026 4:56 pm • 2 Replies • 165 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

Gen Z Femsub thoughts

GenZ Malesub Thoughts Wanted! :D

I think when it comes right down to it, the reality is that most “traditional relationships” have a more shared power dynamic. Not so much for any genetically inherent reason, but for practical ones ...

Fri May 01, 2026 11:57 pm • 10 Replies • 691 Views

Author

SubStanChill

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Femdom

Topic

GenZ Malesub Thoughts Wanted! :D

The Lost Art of True Femininity in The West.

Dude… just… no… don’t… get a therapist.

Fri Mar 20, 2026 8:04 am • 24 Replies • 4112 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

The Lost Art of True Femininity in The West.

The Parts We Don’t Show Anyone

I think sometimes is less about being willing to tell the person you trust most and more not being able to articulate it accurately.

Often I’ll tell things to my therapist that I want to tell my w ...

Thu Mar 05, 2026 2:46 pm • 10 Replies • 1653 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

The Parts We Don’t Show Anyone

Cloud nine

Satisfaction in not being satiated. The shrodinger’s cat of being a sub. I love that feeling. You’re a lucky gal.

Sun Mar 01, 2026 8:49 am • 2 Replies • 446 Views

Author

SubStanChill

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Generally Speaking

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Cloud nine

Just 4 fun: Sexy word game. Rules: Must be a sexy word.

Yearning

Sun Mar 01, 2026 8:45 am • 6719 Replies • 1701456 Views

Author

SubStanChill

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Just for Fun

Topic

Just 4 fun: Sexy word game. Rules: Must be a sexy word.

Is this a kink or just D/s in general?

I don’t think it’s just a normal side of being dominant. I love when my dominant shares what they enjoy about the dynamic as well. The trust being built goes both ways.

Sat Feb 28, 2026 12:50 am • 16 Replies • 1881 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Is this a kink or just D/s in general?

Correction/Punishment ideas for sub not showing enough appreciation for my selfies.

When I technically meet the criteria but not the standard, it’s more of a carrot than stick approach for my wife. In a situation like this… she would tell me what treat I would’ve received had I resp ...

Thu Feb 26, 2026 11:54 am • 13 Replies • 2795 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Correction/Punishment ideas for sub not showing enough appreciation for my selfies.

Wanting to Switch

I think there are some that believe the roles are innate. While I do think there is some roles that we feel more natural in, that doesn’t mean the roles are static. People grow, change and explore. ...

Thu Feb 26, 2026 12:48 am • 1 Replies • 340 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Wanting to Switch

How do I do this?

Breath. Take your time. Build trust first with people then reveal what you wish to explore. If you are inviting someone you trust on a journey that you don’t know the ending over, you’d be surprised h ...

Wed Feb 25, 2026 8:59 am • 8 Replies • 964 Views

Author

SubStanChill

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

How do I do this?