Who has the right?

Gender has not always been based on genitals, though. It’s been based on what the general public perceives your genitals to be.

Yes, most people do align there gender with their sex, but I’m willing to bet that 99.9% of people you interact with have determined that your gender is a man without ever even think about your genitals.

So, even if you were correct, practically speaking, it’s impossible to enforce whether someone can identify as as transperson based on genitals, because you will rarely see them to confirm.

He’s 100% correct!

If you don’t separate deck from gender, you’ll keep getting wrapped around the axel and never be able to make sense of it.

Once you consider them as to completely different characteristics, it’ll start making sense.

[quote="Knightsundere"]

Obviously not all dominant straight men are that daft, but even withbsound reasoning ya get blasted by the ignorant that are so easily offended that they have the need to speak up on others behalf as if the ppl in question are unable to speak for themselves. Not saying as much of you as youve prior said youre the closest to respond

[quote="House Talion"]
I didn't go to woke school to develop this opinion, it's self-evident if you look at how fashion and society have developed in human history. Do not take my disinterest in shaming you for approval, you're ignorant for not having arrived at the logical conclusion yourself, and for not noticing that "speaking up on others' behalf" is in fact how we've arrived to the beautiful modern society where kink websites, being gay, being a woman, being non-white, and so on are all socially acceptable. Ignorance is not an uncommon thing and isn't deserving of abuse, but acting like you're immune to it is.

Truth is we are better when we ask questions and have a civil discussion. House Talion asked what felt like an honest question to members of our community coming from his life experiences and perspective. His question was not eloquent but I believe it was well intended. This is the perfect opportunity to educate. I don't personally know House Talion but I would not consider him to be against anyone. That is for him to say. Of course, you might be going along the party line "If you aren't 100% with me you're against me." Instead of personal attacks against him, educate him. This could be a great moment.

The Forum could be used for much better agendas than personal attacks and forum fight clubs. As a community, anyone can "speak up on someone else's behalf" but it doesn't need to come with personal attacks. There is a difference. Especially if there is the opportunity to educate and improve.

Some people only see ignorance and hate so everything they see written that isn't 100% in line with their concepts of life must be villainous. Regardless of his intent, at least within this community and this Forum, use the opportunity to make a better discussion. If you don't like his question, don't answer. If you feel he is attacking, report his post to the Cage.

As an example, a response might be "Trans identifying persons are seeking a safe, more mentally stable view of self-life and within that, some feel safer using spaces they identify with, whether they are pre-op or post-op. They are asking for the basic respect and treatment that all people ask for. They are asking that the rest of society view their appeal in a compassionate and human manner. They aren't just assuming the right." And then we can have a civilized discussion over a nice cup of coffee.

There are so many topics I am genuinely interested in but I stay quiet as I don't wish to upset or cause others to think of me wrong simply because I am ignorant. I already am aware there are a few members here who chatter like angry squirrels behind the scenes. I don't need to give them any more nuts to play with. But how can I come out of ignorance if I cannot ask those who know?

Wishing you all the best life!!
LL

As long as they’re honest, but it does have to come with a long story! Surgery can be incredibly difficult to reverse. I’ve seen a guy who wanted to go back and make a penis again, and they had to take off the upper part of his leg skin! Some people feel like they were someone else before they came to this life, but it takes someone who understands it. But think of the tools of glamour like a drag queen does, but of course in their own way. They’re not drag queens, but they can be who they want to be. The thing is, no one’s business, but when feelings get deep, just be open and honest. My ex from a decade ago was a drag queen. He stopped doing it in many places, but he still teaches me tools. The book “Making Faces Great” is one of them! This can help.

Women, trans women , and lady boys, stick on boobs what ever works your glamour your character of art. You know, Dolly wore mesh sheer clothes to her skin, and it looked good. She wore wigs. She said she would be a drag queen if she were a man. Everyone gets a say in their life. They need support, just be clear about things. No one gets hurt, of course. Everyone deserves someone who matters. Where you come from, who you can be, but be good to yourself and life. If you those tools go for but be you still never change for anyone do fly pleasing yourself they wanna be in your line be glad they part of it. Bam 😊

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[quote="House Talion"]

No, you are the ignorant one, and everything about your question is offensive, why would anyone trans come on this thread, and engage with someone who is questioning their very right to be who they are. Are you so deluded, that you don't get, can't see that.

I am not surprised no one who is trans has taken part on this thread - why would they. Why should they spend even a moment doing so when its so obvious what you are doing, and its not just asking a question, and your words above reveal it all, even more so than before.

Love is love! We need more of it. Love everyone we meet! My partner, Metro, likes to use skincare products like a Barbie doll. No one is perfect, not even me. But we all have our own unique qualities, and we should love and accept each other for who we are. LBGTQ are good people have good heart and good friend if you talk to them many them truly have Albert Einstein brain! 🧠 ❤️♥️💙💜💗🖤💛💚 🤎🤍🩶🩵❤️‍🔥🌈🦄🏳️‍🌈 I’m gay happy! Happy Hump Day! 🐫🐪

I wouldn't expect someone like you to get why the OPs post was wrong, there is no room, nor should there be for anyone to question peoples right to exist, and yes that is exactly what it was. That sort of thing doesn't deserve any space, nor does your lets everyone be nice, civil BS, about peoples right to exist, that isn't up for any debate, and considering what is being done to trans people by the religious right, your people, why would you expect any trans person to talk to you?