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Question about Master/slave dynamics

"To sum it up, I was told that the slave is supposed to have no limits, and that there is no safeword (a hard 'no' being basically the end of the dynamic)."

I invite you to ask yourself a simple qu ...

Wed Apr 29, 2026 7:40 pm • 15 Replies • 2854 Views

Author

MarcEsadrian

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Question about Master/slave dynamics

Re: A question(s) for Doms

Why do so many Doms (there seems to many on here) want their subs to do tasks in the home naked ? What does that exactly do for you? Why do they want to be in control of her panties, and if she shou ...

Fri Mar 13, 2020 4:00 am • 12 Replies • 11334 Views

Author

MarcEsadrian

Forum

Maledom

Topic

A question(s) for Doms

How do you switch your mind back to Vanilla in a new relationship.

@AKittenforSir and @Harlequin raised extremely valid points, and as an aside, I will simply ask why one would want to switch his mind back to a so-called "vanilla" relationship? Quotes are placed due ...

Fri Feb 07, 2020 7:19 am • 4 Replies • 3695 Views

Author

MarcEsadrian

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

How do you switch your mind back to Vanilla in a new relationship.

How do you detach from your Dom.

a submissive has EVERY right to seek a good match...

I'm pretty sure I mentioned choice and careful decision making above. No scare quotes and caps required.

Wed Apr 25, 2018 6:04 pm • 24 Replies • 19868 Views

Author

MarcEsadrian

Forum

Maledom

Topic

How do you detach from your Dom.

Here I'll dumb this down for you MarcEsadrian not everyone is poly just like not everyone is monogamous...

Yes, that's adequately dumbed down, Fyglia Wicked, for I haven't argued the reality of e ...

Tue Apr 24, 2018 11:08 pm • 24 Replies • 19868 Views

Author

MarcEsadrian

Forum

Maledom

Topic

How do you detach from your Dom.

Advice

Getting unmarried is not as easy as you seem to think it is...

I don't believe I gave any impression it's easy. I wrote the exact opposite, if you cared to notice. It's difficult, but necessary, an ...

Tue Apr 24, 2018 3:29 pm • 9 Replies • 8859 Views

Author

MarcEsadrian

Forum

Maledom

Topic

Advice

How do you detach from your Dom.

@ MarcEsadrian

"helping you get over your axiomatic assertions of monogamy" - not everyone is polyamorous and sometimes this "helping" might cause too much harm.

@Asteria

It''s not so innoc ...

Tue Apr 24, 2018 3:15 pm • 24 Replies • 19868 Views

Author

MarcEsadrian

Forum

Maledom

Topic

How do you detach from your Dom.

@Shelby

"Jealousy, that dragon which slays love under the pretense of keeping it alive." —Havelock Ellis

So, put another way, you are his but he will not be yours to keep. It's a common turmoil ...

Tue Apr 24, 2018 1:47 am • 24 Replies • 19868 Views

Author

MarcEsadrian

Forum

Maledom

Topic

How do you detach from your Dom.

Advice

The first thing that concerns me here, Fusion, is how you say she’s still married. Life is complicated—I get that, but nothing good comes from dealing with those who are still legally attached. Been t ...

Tue Apr 24, 2018 1:28 am • 9 Replies • 8859 Views

Author

MarcEsadrian

Forum

Maledom

Topic

Advice

How do you detach from your Dom.

@Shelby

Why are you detaching from him, exactly? It's not working out for him but it was working out for you? Is that right?

A little more detail would be necessary to answer this question appro ...

Tue Apr 24, 2018 12:54 am • 24 Replies • 19868 Views

Author

MarcEsadrian

Forum

Maledom

Topic

How do you detach from your Dom.