i have started down that kind of rabbit hole just once. In that case i was getting in so deep that it scared the Domme who had agreed to give it a try so much that she stopped it. For my part, that ...

I guess it depends a lot on your timeframe. For me who was blown away by a black market Xeroxed copy of The Story of O in Hong Kong in 1969, even with some pushback it all feels incredibly open.

For me, when they don't match it's a sign that there is something important going on psychologically that i need to focus on. Hopefully i can view it as an opportunity.