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I don't know what to do and need a bit of advice

When there are red flags all over the place and we’re going forward, there are usually some very valuable lessons lurking under the surface. It’s an opportunity to learn more about yourself. Advice? ...

Sat Jun 27, 2026 11:14 pm • 18 Replies • 1013 Views

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goosy

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Generally Speaking

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I don't know what to do and need a bit of advice

Song that describes you or your feelings

Tower of Song - Leonard Cohen

Tue Jun 23, 2026 5:31 am • 456 Replies • 123105 Views

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goosy

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Just for Fun

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Song that describes you or your feelings

Longer View?

As a lifelong sub about to enter my ninth decade on this planet, it looks to me like these things come in waves. Annoying perhaps, but what matters seems to persist under all the noise and fads.

Thu Jun 18, 2026 6:18 pm • 17 Replies • 1662 Views

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goosy

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Sudden influx of subbies

Switch Ability and/or Willingnesss

Seems like everyone has parts of their personality and in this case it depends on how completely they can, or are willing to, go into their dominant self.

Wed May 27, 2026 2:38 pm • 7 Replies • 1037 Views

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goosy

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Submission and fulfillment

Just 7 questions that are both fun and that will make you think.

The very first thing I’d surrender to go into it but just dip a toe in the water would be what I’m allowed to wear each day. Not in a dramatic leather harness way, (or maybe that too) but just the qui ...

Wed May 13, 2026 6:36 am • 4 Replies • 456 Views

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goosy

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Just 7 questions that are both fun and that will make you think.

GenZ Malesub Thoughts Wanted! :D

I guess it depends a lot on your timeframe. For me who was blown away by a black market Xeroxed copy of The Story of O in Hong Kong in 1969, even with some pushback it all feels incredibly open.

Sat May 02, 2026 1:04 am • 10 Replies • 1186 Views

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goosy

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Femdom

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GenZ Malesub Thoughts Wanted! :D

Can You Truly Call Yourself Obedient

For me, when they don't match it's a sign that there is something important going on psychologically that i need to focus on. Hopefully i can view it as an opportunity.

Fri May 01, 2026 8:40 pm • 20 Replies • 4670 Views

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goosy

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Femdom

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Can You Truly Call Yourself Obedient