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Trancebunny Trancebunny​(sub female)
1 day ago • Jun 17, 2026

Sudden influx of subbies

Trancebunny​(sub female) • Jun 17, 2026
Has anyone else noticed lately the sudden influx of subs?

I remember before, there was a very distinct sub/Dom ratio difference and now I find its reversed?

I also find Doms more particular? Has anyone else noticed this?
K a e' l K a e' l
1 day ago • Jun 17, 2026
K a e' l • Jun 17, 2026
Larger numbers of 18 year old fake accounts. Gone quickly.
That's all I have seen.

What? Me particular?
darlingdiana darlingdiana​(sub female)
1 day ago • Jun 17, 2026
darlingdiana​(sub female) • Jun 17, 2026
I think a younger generation is realizing their sexuality and finding their space to belong. Sometimes there are fake accounts and they come and go. Us elders wont be here forever 🤭 There are just as many Doms, they tend to hide from appearing online and many keep visually hidden. This allows for a wider range of play with multiple members, all at once. It can help separates those that are here for genuine reasons and long term friendships or relationships. To those looking to rock their socks or “mind fuck” to the actual members whom often blog and have rich profiles.
The sub community discuss the “Doms” here to keep it all straight and share information as far as references and background.
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Steellover Steellover​(sub male)
18 hours ago • Jun 17, 2026
Steellover​(sub male) • Jun 17, 2026
There are also, unfortunately, a lot of bots; the kinds that message you with terse one-liners like "Hello, How Are You Today?" then, often by the time you reply (if you even bother) it's "Profile Does Not Exist." Seems to be a sad reality of dating sites (both vanilla and otherwise) these days.
pioneer man pioneer man​(sub male)
4 hours ago • Jun 18, 2026
pioneer man​(sub male) • Jun 18, 2026
As a Femdom sub for years, my opinion is that more younger people are wanting to experiment with kink dynamics.

Many of them don't acually understand what a real D/s lifestyle takes to be successful and later disappear. It's the same as most anything else - inexperience vs. expectations due to misinformation (usually from porn or movies).

My Dom & I were the same way when we started - learned by being patient, listening to people with experience, and going through a lot of trial & error.
SavageLimerence SavageLimerence​(switch female)​{~Umber~}Verified Account
4 hours ago • Jun 18, 2026
SavageLimerence​(switch female)​{~Umber~}Verified Account • Jun 18, 2026
Steellover wrote:
There are also, unfortunately, a lot of bots; the kinds that message you with terse one-liners like "Hello, How Are You Today?" then, often by the time you reply (if you even bother) it's "Profile Does Not Exist." Seems to be a sad reality of dating sites (both vanilla and otherwise) these days.



If by bots you mean people trying to skirt the rules and getting caught and banned, unsure if that’s a new slang or not.

It’s beginning of summer break, the kids are out of school. There is an influx of subs this time of year pretty much every time school is out for more than just a long weekend. I notice it on holiday breaks too. There is usually a rhythm and flow to the coming and going, but I think the community here is growing nicely. ^.^
goosy goosy​(sub male)
2 hours ago • Jun 18, 2026

Longer View?

goosy​(sub male) • Jun 18, 2026
As a lifelong sub about to enter my ninth decade on this planet, it looks to me like these things come in waves. Annoying perhaps, but what matters seems to persist under all the noise and fads.
K a e' l K a e' l
10 minutes ago • Jun 18, 2026
K a e' l • Jun 18, 2026
The influx of 26 year old hot Dommes with 15 years experience, is amazeing.