Shout Out to The Cage Staff

Can I just say that The Cage staff is awesome!

It seems y'all are made up of equal parts business professionals, kinksters, DMs, moderators and, I'm sure at times, a little Daddy/Mommy.

The o ...

Fri Dec 29, 2017 5:50 pm • 2 Replies • 4061 Views

Is there a way to avoid desperate noobs?

The two above posts are perfect examples of the comments I made about tone...one genuine, personal and includes intellectually relevant information. The other is just your typical nonsense; self-servi ...

Wed Dec 27, 2017 7:00 pm • 50 Replies • 28731 Views

Is there a way to avoid desperate noobs?

@Hawkeye - It would be speculation to draw a conclusion without an example but people often projet tone in writing. Good writers will do it well. If you write honestly you will convey your message, bu ...

Sat Dec 23, 2017 1:09 am • 50 Replies • 28731 Views

Is there a way to avoid desperate noobs?

@Hawkeye - Tone is harder to define and more something you perceive and thus somewhat subjective. It is hard to convey on a digital platform as intent can be misunderstood. The best way I can explain ...

Fri Dec 22, 2017 11:33 pm • 50 Replies • 28731 Views

Is there a way to avoid desperate noobs?

@Likethewaves - I actually did a post in my blog on this topic a few months ago called "The Don'ts of messaging a Domme - or an woman for that matter". Not only do these people not read profiles but t ...

Fri Dec 22, 2017 11:16 pm • 50 Replies • 28731 Views

Is there a way to avoid desperate noobs?

I share your experience and frustration. I too am messaged often, sometimes several times a day. Most messages are vulgar, despirate, and self centered in theme. I used to try to explain and mentor th ...

Fri Dec 22, 2017 7:05 pm • 50 Replies • 28731 Views

A Question for My Fellow Submissive Guys

100% agree with Evangline and tassos.
Here are a few more thoughts based on my own experience.

Meeting people online may be a good option because you have access to a much larger pool but it is ...

Wed Nov 22, 2017 10:22 pm • 24 Replies • 19370 Views