I am shocked: After one week in a relationship she shares her fetish.

@Idontunderstand: I really sympathise with your pain here. You clearly care very much about this woman. That said, @Masterbear has hit the point right on. How long can you really expect this to last? ...

Sun Jan 20, 2019 6:23 pm • 22 Replies • 10066 Views

Kinky Alphabet.

N is for Nonconsent

***Note*** Just looked up Hedgehogging. Also just started to cry. Maybe the two things are related.

Tue Oct 02, 2018 11:42 pm • 129 Replies • 49845 Views

How to manage BDSM when online?

Online can come across as "what's the point?" but if you're new to this or not sure if you can trust someone, it can really serve a purpose. Also, if your location is somewhere where finding doms/sub ...

Sun Sep 16, 2018 12:32 am • 8 Replies • 5831 Views

First D/s

This is a question that's kind of tricky, though. Because yes, you ca go back, but BDSM is a bit like Diagon Alley in the Harry Potter books. Once you been there, the "normal" places don't feel the sa ...

Fri Aug 31, 2018 2:08 pm • 23 Replies • 11096 Views

First D/s

I don't it matters if you're dom, sub or switch. If you are drawn towards this lifestyle, once you have tasted it, it's extremely difficult to go back. Not entirely impossible. I'm in the situation wh ...

Sat Aug 25, 2018 8:22 pm • 23 Replies • 11096 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Now, this is over a month late. Sorry for the delay. I'm a bit lazy TBH. I'm a switch man who's looking to explore his dominant side. If you check out my profile, you will see that I've spent most of ...

Sat Aug 25, 2018 12:21 pm • 3044 Replies • 885146 Views

Too Soon / Concern issues

Nice one Miki, I think you've just wrapped this thread up perfectly.

Wed Aug 15, 2018 11:50 pm • 25 Replies • 8965 Views

Too Soon / Concern issues

It's not just public wifi, with the growing use of VPN's, you can sit in your home and hide your IP adress. As for being stupid to give out a number that you've linked to your facebook account. Not re ...

Wed Aug 15, 2018 8:58 am • 25 Replies • 8965 Views

Too Soon / Concern issues

No problem Miki, and another worry is that if you’re number is connected to you facebook account and you’ve allowed it to be searched, there’s a the chance of someone turning up on you virtual doorste ...

Mon Aug 13, 2018 8:10 am • 25 Replies • 8965 Views

Too Soon / Concern issues

Miki wrote: "Oh also, caution is indicated. Not only could these sorts be scammers.. they could be that as-yet undiscovered ax murderer. "

Very true and this is just as important for everyone in th ...

Sun Aug 12, 2018 10:54 am • 25 Replies • 8965 Views