Marriage and Ds

Hello!

How are you open to being polyamorous? Would he be okay if you took on other play Partners as long as that is negotiated ? you are running into an age-old problem. That's a person that you ...

Sun Jan 19, 2020 6:37 pm • 9 Replies • 2846 Views

Identity

Or start your own.
Basic munchies are easy for the most part.

Sun Jan 19, 2020 6:32 pm • 17 Replies • 6972 Views

Identity

That makes a lot of sense. My question to you is have you connected with your local community?

Sun Jan 19, 2020 6:18 pm • 17 Replies • 6972 Views

Bdsm lifestyle training

First off congratulations and welcome. No it is not Dom and submissive. Because Dom and submissive are negotiated power exchange. So until you negotiate that that's just how your relationship is.

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Sun Jan 19, 2020 6:10 pm • 7 Replies • 3292 Views

The Day Collar

Think outside the box for concepts of collars. My beloved has multiple necklaces. Those necklaces have a lock. But just somebody walking down the street would just see a necklace unless they specifica ...

Sun Jan 19, 2020 6:06 pm • 18 Replies • 5531 Views

Large girls

Did you meet this person IRT before the play date?

Make sure that you are completely upfront about how you look and how much you weigh. Do it without reservation and without self depreciation. Mee ...

Sun Jan 19, 2020 6:03 pm • 31 Replies • 16685 Views

Workouts & General Excercise

I did before the accident. Since the accident the symptoms make it very very hard. And something that I would like to get back to one day. But I simply do not have control over that anymore.

Sun Jan 19, 2020 5:58 pm • 22 Replies • 8104 Views

Identity

That makes complete sense. Identity is something that you are all the time. Role is something you slip in and out of as necessary.

Sun Jan 19, 2020 5:57 pm • 17 Replies • 6972 Views

Exhausting

Not really.

I disagree with the term posers.

But the majority of my BDSM life is in real time.
So my experience in real time is with people that are struggling to understand themselves and und ...

Sun Jan 19, 2020 5:56 pm • 17 Replies • 6869 Views

Identity

For me, it wasn't about coming into an identity. It was about having a term for what it was that I was already feeling. When I found the term it was incredibly validating.

Sun Jan 19, 2020 5:50 pm • 17 Replies • 6972 Views