What does high protocol mean to you?

I view high protocol as no speaking, disappear into the back ground, anticipate needs, make no noise, serve but do not interfere, remove the self, show deference and respect at all times , dont touch, ...

Tue Mar 05, 2019 9:00 pm • 13 Replies • 13414 Views

Anyone completely new?

Good morning and welcome !!!


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Tue Mar 05, 2019 4:43 pm • 17 Replies • 8520 Views

Finding a mentor - Dom

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And ppl are always open to questions here.

Congrats and WELCOME !!

Mon Mar 04, 2019 6:51 am • 6 Replies • 6449 Views

D/s and mental health issues

I agree curious.

I also feel that the term stable is relative.

My third feels their other partner is stable. My love and I do not.


I think the other thing to remember here is that under a ...

Mon Mar 04, 2019 3:34 am • 34 Replies • 8358 Views

D/s and mental health issues

Hey everyone,

This is a difficult topic.

I think it serves us all to see how people look at mental illness.

How people separate it, quantify it, and work to find words around it.


The O ...

Mon Mar 04, 2019 3:08 am • 34 Replies • 8358 Views

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Contact these folks.


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Mon Mar 04, 2019 12:11 am • 13 Replies • 13564 Views

D/s and mental health issues

@curious


I completely agree.

Honestly, I dont find that mental illness makes anyone more or less dangerous I. BDSM.

I think refusals to seek help, justifying consistent poor behavior in ...

Mon Mar 04, 2019 12:02 am • 34 Replies • 8358 Views

D/s and mental health issues

@curious


Is it the mental illness that is the issue or the the non disclosure?


We had a situation here a while back.
S type was schizophrenic.
Refused to see a problem, refused to get ...

Sun Mar 03, 2019 11:55 pm • 34 Replies • 8358 Views

D/s and mental health issues

I think that you need to define a little better what you are asking here.

One in 5 US adults suffer from a mental illness.

https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/mental-illness.shtml


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Sun Mar 03, 2019 11:33 pm • 34 Replies • 8358 Views

Protected?

Oh, I forgot.

The protector is also a go to incase something happens to the one being protected.

That's what happened to my love.

Sun Mar 03, 2019 10:26 pm • 5 Replies • 2905 Views