Kink at a wedding?

@Dr

I so agreee!!

I think two ceremonies ar the best way to go.

That way you can have fun and really indulge all of you .

Sat Feb 23, 2019 6:07 pm • 12 Replies • 6660 Views

Young and Old When is it acceptable.

This is really interesting.

A consistent thought here is that May/December relationships won't last.


Our third is 20+ years older then us- going on 9 years now.

I dont think that age gap ...

Sat Feb 23, 2019 12:48 pm • 7 Replies • 3169 Views

Young and Old When is it acceptable.

I think the OP raises some good points about age discrimination in the BDSM community.


For a community that actively seeks out partners that complement our identities, how is it that age is sti ...

Sat Feb 23, 2019 5:44 am • 7 Replies • 3169 Views

Kink at a wedding?

You could always suck his fingers the whole time.

They won't hear a word you say.


And CONGRATS!!!

Sat Feb 23, 2019 2:33 am • 12 Replies • 6660 Views

Kink at a wedding?

We had a collaring ceremony that served as our wedding.

I have also presided over collarings in the past.

Having you on both knees to accept the collar.

Having your vows represent your po ...

Sat Feb 23, 2019 2:28 am • 12 Replies • 6660 Views

4 way relationship.

For me, I have to remind myself that my insecurities are my responsibility.

If I rely to much on outside validation, even from the people that love me, I can become very unhealthy with my need.

Fri Feb 22, 2019 7:24 pm • 19 Replies • 11698 Views

D/S relationship in public places

I really thought about the concept of being in public and being same sex affectionate.

How that offends many.

But, thankfully, is no longer illegal.
It took visibility to change that law. ...

Fri Feb 22, 2019 4:58 pm • 37 Replies • 19495 Views

4 way relationship.

OMG thank you for this.


We are a triad ( going on 9 years) and I have struggled with feelings of "I'm not enough" for years.

I've come to think that I have this deep belief about myself that ...

Fri Feb 22, 2019 5:49 am • 19 Replies • 11698 Views

D/S relationship in public places

@nawa

Ah-- your right.

But having seen bdsm ers be self righteous about space and displace others.

I've seen spontaneous scenes happen in vanilla venues.

Fri Feb 22, 2019 12:18 am • 37 Replies • 19495 Views

D/S relationship in public places

@Shahh


I see your point.
Gonna have to think on that a min.

But between here and there-
BDSM is illegal for both parties and in many states classified as a sex crime.

Thu Feb 21, 2019 11:00 pm • 37 Replies • 19495 Views