Part time D/s questions

Attacking the OP serves no purpose here.

Mon Feb 04, 2019 5:59 pm • 28 Replies • 10216 Views

Part time D/s questions

Are honesty, trust, and communication important.


Yes.

Do we always have the ability to do that when faced with our self knowledge drastically changing.

No.

I compare coming into bdsm ...

Mon Feb 04, 2019 5:52 am • 28 Replies • 10216 Views

Part time D/s questions

This post isn't about infidelity.

This is about a new Dom looking for answers.


This person cheating is his monkey.

Mon Feb 04, 2019 5:20 am • 28 Replies • 10216 Views

Being a feminist and a submissive female

The two are not in conflict.

The essence of feminism is the ability for women to have choices.


If your CHOICE is to embrace your submission.

Then you are a feminist.

Mon Feb 04, 2019 4:16 am • 81 Replies • 20255 Views

Part time D/s questions

When it comes to things like sub drop and Dom drop you have no idea what it is until you experience it. People can describe it to you but it's just like driving a car. You can read all about it and wa ...

Mon Feb 04, 2019 4:06 am • 28 Replies • 10216 Views

Part time D/s questions

You are in an intensely emotional situation.


Sub drop can last hours or even days.
What you can do is scale back your play time and make sure you have more aftercare. Make sure she eats and dr ...

Sun Feb 03, 2019 7:29 am • 28 Replies • 10216 Views

A soft release

Well timed post as I am in that pickle right now.

Because I organize events turning someone down has different consequences .

I risk the refusal also driving them out of the group.


Recentl ...

Sun Feb 03, 2019 3:39 am • 20 Replies • 8633 Views

Q(?) for the Doms/Masters/Daddys

https://thecage.co/phpBB/viewtopic.php?t=1340

Sat Feb 02, 2019 8:36 am • 5 Replies • 4082 Views

Labels/pet names

You can choose no honorific.

That's up to you.


Not everyone does
I am Master, Sir, Bear, and Punkin

Thu Jan 31, 2019 9:10 pm • 8 Replies • 4494 Views

A question of protocol

Ask them.

Thu Jan 31, 2019 6:25 pm • 4 Replies • 2462 Views