Abuse vs protocol

Thank you both.

I think my point is -

Coercion can look like consent and even feel like consent until time tells differently.

And

A D type interested in abuse is not going to bother readin ...

Thu Nov 15, 2018 8:21 pm • 40 Replies • 12705 Views

Cultivating a New D/s Relationship | Grooming

@RP

thank you for writing this

Thu Nov 15, 2018 4:43 pm • 15 Replies • 12002 Views

Abuse vs protocol

@Bunnie

Sure!


Some accepted protocols for "s" types that are common:

No eye contact

All social interaction must be preapproved
(I.e. the D type gets to say who the s types friends are ...

Thu Nov 15, 2018 4:41 pm • 40 Replies • 12705 Views

Discussion on Primal

@alawey


LOVE THIS


I am having to rethink this.

Thu Nov 15, 2018 5:36 am • 12 Replies • 6007 Views

Abuse vs protocol

My Love and I are having a great conversation.

It is about how protocols can mask abuse.

We know someone who is very abusive and masks this in public with behaviors that are recognized as common ...

Thu Nov 15, 2018 5:32 am • 40 Replies • 12705 Views

BDSM: Best Advice You've Received?

@NaivelyOptimistic

Yes .

You worded this beautifully.

I'm not saying that groups will be perfect and that ppl will agree with everything they do.

I am saying on those things that are wort ...

Thu Nov 15, 2018 3:05 am • 34 Replies • 14857 Views

Discussion on Primal

@Bunnie

Love this.

Thu Nov 15, 2018 2:57 am • 12 Replies • 6007 Views

Discussion on Primal

I remember when primal became vogue.

It was a time when I had to face my own intolerance.

A -- role my eyes "ugh" moment.

I'll be curious to see what ppl say here .

Thu Nov 15, 2018 2:33 am • 12 Replies • 6007 Views

BDSM: Best Advice You've Received?

@naivelyoptimistic


What it means is if you disagree with what an organization is doing then dont give them your money, your time, or your presence.

If you agree with an organization- their ac ...

Thu Nov 15, 2018 2:23 am • 34 Replies • 14857 Views

Cultivating a New D/s Relationship | Grooming

@RP

Can you expand on

"Characterized by overt grooming"

Thu Nov 15, 2018 2:12 am • 15 Replies • 12002 Views