BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

This is so odd to me. Why should a blocker be theoretically forced to converse with someone in order to block them? Isn't it worse for someone to send you 2 curt messages just so they can quickly bloc ...

Wed Apr 05, 2023 5:12 am • 34 Replies • 6511 Views

A question

Thank you, Miki for telling me your experience as a Sub! I appreciate the long responses as it's food for thought but I also like you getting straight to the point. All feedback is welcome!

Sun Dec 13, 2020 10:30 pm • 16 Replies • 5942 Views

A question

Also, the reason why I brought up the hunter/primal/predator score on the BDSM test is because when I read the comment I thought perhaps that could explain why that had been the experience of that par ...

Sat Dec 12, 2020 7:10 pm • 16 Replies • 5942 Views

A question

Thanks everyone for their replies, very illuminating to read.

To be clear: this was not my own experience or my own view of Doms. This entire forum post is based on a comment that someone left on ...

Sat Dec 12, 2020 7:03 pm • 16 Replies • 5942 Views

Remote vibes

Lush 2 is fine for long distance public play but I personally don't like that one for home use. For me the shape was difficult for me to get any real satisfaction from.

I have 2 toys by We Vibe tha ...

Thu Dec 10, 2020 6:40 pm • 17 Replies • 9880 Views

A question

I think people are confused when I say "predator" I don't mean like the criminal...I mean like the category on the BDSM test. I am not assuming Some are predatory criminals. I have been on this site f ...

Thu Dec 10, 2020 6:20 pm • 16 Replies • 5942 Views

A question

Okay I am returning to this site after a long hiatus and I went through my old blog posts tonight. I came across a comment on one of my posts with the general gist of what was said being:

Dom onli ...

Thu Dec 10, 2020 8:51 am • 16 Replies • 5942 Views

Let’s talk about WETNESS ladies/gents

I definitely have that experience especially in the beginning of a dynamic where you are so passionate about the person and it's all so new. But I have never been embarrassed by it actually. I've alwa ...

Thu Dec 10, 2020 8:16 am • 11 Replies • 5031 Views

Prioritizing/Scheduling

Thanks to everyone who has commented and offered advice. I am so appreciative of you all taking the time out to help me. I am going to take all the tips and tricks into consideration moving forward! T ...

Wed Aug 14, 2019 12:36 am • 15 Replies • 7466 Views

Prioritizing/Scheduling

Thanks, this is really good advice! I will definitely be using some of these tips. And you're right about communication. I definitely do this thing where I don't say anything at first because I feel b ...

Tue Aug 13, 2019 8:43 am • 15 Replies • 7466 Views