How To Punish

A punishment just like a task must consider all outside factors before being expected to be completed. I have tons of protocol that my slave maintains, none are unachievable. Some are uncomfortable, o ...

Sun Feb 07, 2021 2:30 am • 21 Replies • 10884 Views

Clothing for Doms.

Traditionally Dominants wear black at events. Depending on the event dictates how formal or informal you dress. A non formal event I may wear dark jeans and a black button down shirt. More formal even ...

Sun Feb 07, 2021 2:23 am • 4 Replies • 4963 Views

Am I wrong? If so, tell me.

Always take time getting to know a new possible partner. It is likely that you will weed out the lesser experienced Dominants with a few days of conversation. Remember it is your body and that allows ...

Sun Feb 07, 2021 2:15 am • 11 Replies • 6115 Views

BDSM slave auctions

Do auctions still take place? I haven’t heard of a real life auction in a few years. There are tons of virtual ones if you do some researching though

Sun Feb 07, 2021 2:13 am • 8 Replies • 11595 Views

Subs Pursuing Doms

I am a tad bit old school in thinking and I prefer a submissive who takes the initiative. They are choosing their dominant and if a submissive chose me to guide her and take ownership I would likely m ...

Sun Feb 07, 2021 2:10 am • 60 Replies • 26518 Views

what do you look for

The things that I generally look for are: ability to stay focused, she has to be able to show empathy, consistency, honesty, the willingness to accept change, a level head, and availability. The red f ...

Sun Feb 07, 2021 2:06 am • 31 Replies • 9894 Views

A Harem

The only few pieces of advice I can give you are:

1. Know that you can handle it - I have been there up to 5 at one point. The amount of stress and responsibility triples with each add. What seems ...

Mon Apr 08, 2019 10:30 pm • 10 Replies • 10752 Views

Dominant headspace

I would love to say that I had some trick to switch it on, but I don’t. I wake up everyday in my dominant headspace, it never goes off... Can I flex and be emotional support? Yes it takes work but I a ...

Mon Apr 08, 2019 10:20 pm • 8 Replies • 7774 Views

Dom not stepping up

Afternoon,

Sounds like there is a lot of work to be had there, over the years I have heard stories similar to this and have rarely heard them pan out. I hate that you are in that situation and hope ...

Mon Apr 08, 2019 10:13 pm • 7 Replies • 5549 Views

A question for the Doms

Just like with all types of relationships things change and outside factors can change how we feel and act. Normally with a strong bond the communication can work people past those disconnects. There ...

Mon Apr 08, 2019 5:13 pm • 37 Replies • 17102 Views