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Remote controlled vibrators can (when they work properly) be fun. If they're wearable you can be pleasantly surprised as you clean around the house and such.

Other suggestions involve chatting in ...

Sun Apr 25, 2021 3:08 pm • 12 Replies • 6442 Views

First time going to a club

Be nice, be respectful, don't stare too hard, wear street clothes there, and don't be afraid to ask questions. Specifics would depend on the club.

Thu Apr 22, 2021 2:04 pm • 16 Replies • 6475 Views

Old School Protocols

@Miki. Its expecting a dog to be aloof and hygienic and the cat to fetch your slippers.

Tue Apr 20, 2021 5:53 pm • 31 Replies • 8617 Views

Old School Protocols

It probably was hazing. From my brief association I got the sense that for the old guard it was less about satisfying kinky urges and more accumulating power and status. Though my anecdote shouldn't ...

Mon Apr 19, 2021 9:51 am • 31 Replies • 8617 Views

Old School Protocols

Years ago I was at a private club where I found myself lectured by an older gentleman on how I wasn't a proper Dom. How I was supposed to sub for a at least a year and automatically yield to his opin ...

Mon Apr 19, 2021 4:07 am • 31 Replies • 8617 Views

About one's virtues and traits.

As to River's question I think as long as you mean what you say and mean what you say it is fine. If its bullshit people will rapidly figure that out. If its not they'll see that as well. And if th ...

Sun Apr 18, 2021 6:46 pm • 15 Replies • 4223 Views

Things you wish you had known....

Don't open it.

One person understands that joke. In all seriousness I guess I would point out to my younger self that they are going to screw up and not everything will work out perfectly. Don't ...

Sun Apr 18, 2021 2:46 pm • 40 Replies • 11958 Views

Never masturbates !?!

You know once the autopilot is on there isn't much to do on a modern jet...

I wouldn't say I don't think about sex during every day life even when fully engaged with other things. For example I de ...

Thu Apr 15, 2021 11:57 pm • 104 Replies • 24689 Views

Never masturbates !?!

So I was talking to a friend of mine who studies baboons or simians (some sort of smaller primate) and they told me that in the wild the chimps rarely spank the monkey, but in captivity they can't kee ...

Thu Apr 15, 2021 11:37 pm • 104 Replies • 24689 Views

Punishments

@Miki

Punish a masochist with pain? I think not. More effective to tease you with the pain. As you are held in place let the whip caress you, just hard enough you feel it but not enough to thril ...

Sat Mar 20, 2021 12:53 am • 19 Replies • 7064 Views