Sub - Dom - Sadist?

He sounds like an extreme switch that got in with you as a sub and never communicated his intentions.

Honestly, that sounds highly manipulative of him.

Mon Apr 29, 2019 6:33 am • 11 Replies • 7528 Views

The little things..

My job gives me a lot of mindless tasks, and it leaves me with quite a bit of time to brainstorm writing ideas.

Today, I had a breakthrough, and put together how to structure a very long, over-arch ...

Fri Apr 26, 2019 1:56 pm • 12 Replies • 5302 Views

New To BDSM [doubts]

I can definitely see how one can come off with this impression. A lot of people are very private about their involvement in the lifestyle. They want a partner to share that with, but don't want a circ ...

Fri Apr 26, 2019 12:50 pm • 11 Replies • 7188 Views

Anyone know how i can subconsciously convince my wife to become my sub?

>into the lifestyle

>married someone who isn't

You dumb fam.

Wed Apr 24, 2019 3:07 pm • 22 Replies • 14052 Views

Collars and your "dream" ceremony.

From both sides of the whip, I have similar ideas for how I'd like it to go. Something private, with the submissive partner kneeling, head craned back a bit, and the dominant partner restating the ten ...

Wed Apr 24, 2019 3:06 pm • 19 Replies • 15127 Views

What does your Dom call you?

I've always given a pet name to my partners that no one else has gotten. "Sunshine", "sweetness", sweetheart", and "cutie" as examples.

Sat Apr 20, 2019 1:54 am • 41 Replies • 21160 Views

I topped a Dom male

"It's too much to type out."
Then why did you post on an internet forum asking for help if you can't be bothered to give information about the situation?

Tue Apr 16, 2019 9:05 am • 11 Replies • 7019 Views

I topped a Dom male

Ok, this needs a LOT of context.

You're not going to submit to him, but you still want to "see" him?

You topped" him. What do you mean? Did you pin him to the ground? Did you peg him? In the mid ...

Mon Apr 15, 2019 5:17 pm • 11 Replies • 7019 Views

Trouble satisfying yourself?

Same here, fam. I think a lot of people have this problem, and it can stem from any number of causes. For me, it stems from sex being all about the connection with another person, so rockin' it solo d ...

Mon Apr 15, 2019 1:35 pm • 4 Replies • 2368 Views

Question for both submissives and dominants about communication

Hi, switch dude here for context.

It sounds like those two are just rude. Regardless of the dynamic, making demands and general assery doesn't have a place.

Personally, I don't expect or give an ...

Sat Apr 13, 2019 4:27 pm • 42 Replies • 22092 Views