Sir in the South

Might you be able to call address your Dom as 'my sir'?

Tue Feb 28, 2023 3:50 pm • 8 Replies • 1528 Views

Making friends with like minded people!

Fetlife is best as I've also seen for events, but deck out your profile to show you're taken, don't add a summary or a pict so no one will show interest of any relations besides freinds

Tue Feb 28, 2023 3:45 pm • 2 Replies • 659 Views

In His honor

Get a locket that instantly reminds you of him and put a lock of his hair in it so you'll always have a peicenof him with you no matter what. If necklaces aren't your thing you can use a 'snuff' ring.

Tue Feb 28, 2023 3:43 pm • 14 Replies • 2437 Views

Need advice on whether wife’s new Dom is shady.

She had your consent JUST for additional emotional support. By her actions you should be able to get a no fault divorce of which her messages with hom proove intent to adultry and you'll get full cust ...

Tue Feb 28, 2023 3:39 pm • 37 Replies • 6344 Views

Anyone seen character dynamics in a show or movie that made something click?

I e always felt a connection to the male characters that lead without wanting to be the leader, the one most likely to get the job done.

Tue Feb 21, 2023 12:29 pm • 10 Replies • 1215 Views

Crossing a line?

If you have a problem with what attracts you it may be as simple as previously being unable to explore your sexuality.

Tue Feb 21, 2023 1:31 am • 9 Replies • 1725 Views

New to This?

It all depends on your personal enjoyment. So find what you like, what you love, and what drives you wild

Tue Feb 21, 2023 1:29 am • 8 Replies • 1630 Views

being rude

Sounds like you've been chatting with ppl that want to change your personality. If you see nothing wrong with the way you do things than don't change for someone else.

Tue Feb 21, 2023 1:27 am • 35 Replies • 7457 Views

Highly experienced sub struggling on how to introduce, educate non-bdsm fiancé wanting to learn.

I'd say start with the basics of whatbyou know and lead him to new ways of giving you please and see how he reacts.

Like start with spanking. Get him comfy, get on top, and when you start to rock ...

Thu Dec 22, 2022 9:15 pm • 24 Replies • 4942 Views

Am I doing something wrong...?

Most of the ppl within this lifestyle are users and abusers or ubber-doms. So you can deal with it, learn to recognize the idiots, or stick to the vanilla ppl that treat ya worse. Yoy could have a p ...

Wed Nov 23, 2022 12:03 am • 12 Replies • 2563 Views