Appeal and Lack of Experience

Hi Fab, thank you very much for the reply.

I wrote the OP with the supposition that the Dom in question (me) is possessed of common sense. For instance, I don't know much about bondage beyond the v ...

Thu Nov 01, 2018 7:42 pm • 32 Replies • 16705 Views

Wired differently?

I think that the question boiled down to why do we have the inclinations that we do. I lay it at the feet of nature and nurture LordOfPain lays it at God's feet without condemning those with a differe ...

Thu Nov 01, 2018 5:08 pm • 25 Replies • 12344 Views

Halloween Happinesses

Thanks bud!

Thu Nov 01, 2018 8:15 am • 2 Replies • 3632 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Welcome guys! I just came here a couple of days ago and I've already met a bunch of great people. I hope you have an excellent time here

Thu Nov 01, 2018 1:49 am • 3267 Replies • 1140049 Views

Wired differently?

@ CK45, great question
Yes, I believe we are wired differently... I believe all of these factors combined together into our own concoction is what makes us “us.”

I think the whole post is very ...

Wed Oct 31, 2018 5:17 pm • 25 Replies • 12344 Views

Halloween Happinesses

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cLSmhpwLdEQ <--- Christopher Walken reading The Raven

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g5rc1sJ5z08 <--- Nick Cave - Mack The Knife (much closer to Meckie Mes ...

Wed Oct 31, 2018 5:02 pm • 2 Replies • 3632 Views

Appeal and Lack of Experience

Thank-you all for your very thoughtful and helpful replies. It is interesting to see the different perspectives - though they seem to have the main point in common. That's actually somewhat reassuring ...

Tue Oct 30, 2018 4:00 am • 32 Replies • 16705 Views

Appeal and Lack of Experience

How important is the amount of experience a Dom has in terms of general appeal to a sub? And what can one do to mitigate that effect?

Mon Oct 29, 2018 9:15 pm • 32 Replies • 16705 Views

Wired differently?

So do I. Self-investigation is never a bad thing.

Mon Oct 29, 2018 4:50 am • 25 Replies • 12344 Views

Questions For People Who Know More Than Me (ie Everyone)

Thanks Bear, very practical and sensible.

Mon Oct 29, 2018 4:36 am • 6 Replies • 5253 Views