Does anyone have any ideas of what my Master and i can do as far as rewards, punishments, or just playing around to enforce his dominance over me without me getting too bratty since he would have a harder time controlling me since he is 4 hours away a chunk of the time?

I am female but do not enjoy being referred to as such. I love my Master and believe he wants the best for me but he doesnt use my preferred name nor preferred pronouns, which I told him he doesn't have to, but it can cause some issues.