Why is it so hard for me to find someone?

It takes a lot of time and effort to find a match, kinky or not. I'd suggest you concentrate on making some friends here and getting involved in the chats and conversations on the forums. Get to know ...

Fri Apr 06, 2018 12:46 pm • 12 Replies • 13424 Views

Indiana kink scene

It's a bit tricky if you live in a more remote area to find like-minded people to interact with. I've had the same problem at various times, particularly when I was living in rural Canada. I turned ...

Tue Apr 03, 2018 8:16 pm • 13 Replies • 15918 Views

Places to educate a new dom

Hey Rell! Great to have you here and thanks for your post. I'm sure others in our community will chime in with some great advice. In the meantime, I recommend you check our our "Let's Get You Starte ...

Tue Mar 27, 2018 4:21 pm • 4 Replies • 7486 Views

I can’t believe it’s not butter

@FabSeverus..we're trying! We hope everyone will help us spread the word

Thu Mar 15, 2018 2:18 pm • 15 Replies • 12593 Views

Consent Isn't Always Enough

My response to a question on Quora about the difference between a BDSM relationship and an abusive relationship:

Consent IS vital to a healthy and safe relationship but it is possible for one party ...

Tue Mar 06, 2018 5:47 pm • 3 Replies • 4515 Views

Sub names

Cumslut? I'm just old fashioned I suppose.

Tue Mar 06, 2018 5:17 pm • 9 Replies • 80965 Views

Profile visible to members only?

We have been focused on the subscription system so far this year and haven't been able to turn our attention to these privacy options. They are at the top of our 'to do' list so I promise you they ar ...

Thu Mar 01, 2018 5:09 pm • 20 Replies • 16726 Views

Packing Toys for a Move

Bonnie covered it - exactly what I was going to say. I love heavy duty ziplock bags for traveling and organization and they are particularly good for storing rope and other gear.

Good luck in the ...

Thu Feb 15, 2018 2:53 pm • 5 Replies • 6439 Views

Mature Women

Oh good..plenty of time to hit my summit then! I knew I was getting better!

Wed Feb 07, 2018 5:27 pm • 12 Replies • 15535 Views

Cage Chat Room Munch

Thank you to everyone who hosted/participated in this event! If anyone wants to host a chatroom event that they'd like to promote on the front page drop me a message please. We'd love to help support ...

Mon Feb 05, 2018 4:45 pm • 61 Replies • 51599 Views