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1301

NEW! Live Messaging System @ THE CAGE!

I'll point Cage Monkey to this concern. Thanks for the heads up Phoenix!

Mon Apr 16, 2018 3:44 pm • 20 Replies • 23153 Views

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Villanelle

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Technical Support

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NEW! Live Messaging System @ THE CAGE!

1302

Why is it so hard for me to find someone?

It takes a lot of time and effort to find a match, kinky or not. I'd suggest you concentrate on making some friends here and getting involved in the chats and conversations on the forums. Get to know ...

Fri Apr 06, 2018 12:46 pm • 12 Replies • 14293 Views

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Villanelle

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Femdom

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Why is it so hard for me to find someone?

1303

Indiana kink scene

It's a bit tricky if you live in a more remote area to find like-minded people to interact with. I've had the same problem at various times, particularly when I was living in rural Canada. I turned ...

Tue Apr 03, 2018 8:16 pm • 13 Replies • 16804 Views

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Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

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Indiana kink scene

1304

Places to educate a new dom

Hey Rell! Great to have you here and thanks for your post. I'm sure others in our community will chime in with some great advice. In the meantime, I recommend you check our our "Let's Get You Starte ...

Tue Mar 27, 2018 4:21 pm • 4 Replies • 7938 Views

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Villanelle

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Absolute Beginners

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Places to educate a new dom

1305

I can’t believe it’s not butter

@FabSeverus..we're trying! We hope everyone will help us spread the word

Thu Mar 15, 2018 2:18 pm • 15 Replies • 13310 Views

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Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

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I can’t believe it’s not butter

1306

Consent Isn't Always Enough

My response to a question on Quora about the difference between a BDSM relationship and an abusive relationship:

Consent IS vital to a healthy and safe relationship but it is possible for one party ...

Tue Mar 06, 2018 5:47 pm • 3 Replies • 4795 Views

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Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

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Consent Isn't Always Enough

1307

Sub names

Cumslut? I'm just old fashioned I suppose.

Tue Mar 06, 2018 5:17 pm • 9 Replies • 82073 Views

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Villanelle

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Sub names

1308

Profile visible to members only?

We have been focused on the subscription system so far this year and haven't been able to turn our attention to these privacy options. They are at the top of our 'to do' list so I promise you they ar ...

Thu Mar 01, 2018 5:09 pm • 20 Replies • 17771 Views

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Villanelle

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Technical Support

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Profile visible to members only?

1309

Packing Toys for a Move

Bonnie covered it - exactly what I was going to say. I love heavy duty ziplock bags for traveling and organization and they are particularly good for storing rope and other gear.

Good luck in the ...

Thu Feb 15, 2018 2:53 pm • 5 Replies • 6928 Views

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Villanelle

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Equipment & Toys

Topic

Packing Toys for a Move

1310

Mature Women

Oh good..plenty of time to hit my summit then! I knew I was getting better!

Wed Feb 07, 2018 5:27 pm • 12 Replies • 16543 Views

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Villanelle

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Fetish

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Mature Women