are looks important

If a sexual component is a limit to you, then communicate it. There's nothing wrong with having needs and expectations, if anything that's the way it should be. I'm of the belief that you should pursu ...

Sat Jun 03, 2017 8:45 pm • 5 Replies • 5372 Views

Read a Profile First / Emails

hear! hear!

You are just asking the bare minimum of civility, nothing wrong with that.

Sat Jun 03, 2017 5:52 am • 4 Replies • 4823 Views

are looks important

Physical attractiveness is a factor, but not *the* determining factor when I pursue a relationship. Some of the things that for me hold more influence than looks are chemistry, their character and rel ...

Sat Jun 03, 2017 5:24 am • 5 Replies • 5372 Views

Limits

The questions of limits has its place. Even as a submissive, I would like to know how aware a potential partner is of what they are comfortable with. When the question does come up, I don't give a lis ...

Wed May 31, 2017 5:41 am • 9 Replies • 9031 Views

Non sexual bdsm

By non-sexual play do you mean any activity that doesn't involve the stimulation of erogenous zones? If that's the case, depending on the type of non-sexual play I may be participating in, it can caus ...

Sat May 20, 2017 2:14 am • 6 Replies • 8947 Views

A Word Too Far

The way I see it everyone browsing the cage is an adult, I think it's far more important to foster a culture where certain behaviours are not tolerated (i.e. harassment or being a troll) than focusing ...

Fri May 19, 2017 6:27 am • 8 Replies • 8909 Views

Putting it out there!!!

In reply to Misdee's questions:

How do you like to be approached?
It depends, but as a general principle I prefer to be approached as if the D/s roles didn't exist. Let me know you are interested ...

Sun Mar 12, 2017 7:45 am • 19 Replies • 18176 Views