Sad, scared but aware

As said I am not here to party. Working with my SO to try to explain why something so counterintuitive to his nature will help me. If you read my blog, profile......I am Catholic. Not faith to the ...

Thu Mar 07, 2019 8:03 am • 10 Replies • 7723 Views

And another thing....

Well, it sounds like you need to do some soul searching. Forget the labels and the "supposed to be". What do YOU want out of a relationship? Why do you think you're a sub? Why do you like being tied? ...

Wed Mar 06, 2019 3:42 am • 10 Replies • 7723 Views

I was over the party

a long time ago. To assume that about me tells frankly makes me feel judged. Perhaps read the information and other posts before responding. Are you here only for yourself? That is for the guy m ...

Wed Mar 06, 2019 3:40 am • 10 Replies • 7723 Views

Sad, scared but aware

I love my SO. However, discussing my exploration.....I just don't know if we will make it in this lifestyle. I am sad. However every man /woman I have been with say that I have the upper hand and h ...

Wed Mar 06, 2019 1:29 am • 10 Replies • 7723 Views

Your take of a Submissive????

I can only speak for myself.....so here goes.

I'm submissive to ONE. I gave Him my submission. I'm a rather dominant personality at the best of times, and a real control freak. Does that make NOT ...

Wed Feb 27, 2019 5:30 am • 44 Replies • 22584 Views

A question for the Doms

Been there. In my case it was a narcissistic sociopath who had found a fresh new supply.


Being divorced from one, I have an acute awareness of what to look for in a Dom. Thank god.

Wed Feb 27, 2019 12:25 am • 37 Replies • 16086 Views