Punishment

Being a sadist, I definitely punish often and creatively.
My punishment styles differ from sub to sub, but there is always some level of boundary pushing and development. A punishment without develo ...

Sun Mar 01, 2020 7:57 am • 8 Replies • 3400 Views

Primal

Primal is when the participants in a dynamic, or simply play scene, abandon the refinements of civilized humanity in lieu of the bestial simplicity of our more primal nature. The Top will act with see ...

Mon Feb 17, 2020 3:23 am • 5 Replies • 8315 Views

Bondage Submissives

I prefer to bond with leather and suspend with chains.
As much as I like the look and variability of rope, I just think intricate rope play takes too long. Even having watched riggers who have been u ...

Sun Feb 16, 2020 6:51 pm • 7 Replies • 5634 Views

Switch off

In regards to the eyes, there is something to consider.
When my photo is being taken (or even worse if I am taking a photo of myself), I have a lot of difficulty focusing for some reason.
Whatever ...

Sun Feb 16, 2020 7:36 am • 26 Replies • 9380 Views

Switch off

You may not be able to. That happens, unfortunately.
If you want to try and make it work, just keep at it. If he is dominant in the way you want him to be, it may alter your perception of what his ap ...

Sat Feb 15, 2020 7:31 pm • 26 Replies • 9380 Views

Switch off

On the one hand, the old adage that you should not judge a book by its cover rings true, especially in a more practiced area like BDSM. If your thought process is that he cannot possibly be that domin ...

Sat Feb 15, 2020 7:16 pm • 26 Replies • 9380 Views

St Valentine’s Day

My partners and I are typically ‘Make Every Day Valentine’s’ people, though we usually end up doing something (an event or workshop) simply because it is Valentine’s themed and therefore, on Valentine ...

Fri Feb 14, 2020 5:20 pm • 2 Replies • 1792 Views

Where do you meet for your roleplay?

Wherever suits the scene. I have my cenobite role play which is usually pretty twisted, so I will either set something up at home or find an abandoned location (cemeteries, hospitals, etc). There is a ...

Fri Feb 14, 2020 4:04 am • 6 Replies • 2947 Views

Blending the D/s dynamic with the vanilla world

I have a number of ways that my subs and I maintain our dynamics and even play in public. Subtle displays of dominance and submission like how we walk (my sub walks either in front of me and just to t ...

Tue Feb 11, 2020 6:09 am • 4 Replies • 4397 Views

How to Institute Orgasm Control

That is possible, yes. The direction it goes can depend on the intensity of the impact the image has on you, as well as your own nature. If you respond well to surprises, using the image more sparingl ...

Tue Feb 11, 2020 4:02 am • 41 Replies • 16984 Views