Just a simple question...

What is BDSM to me?

It's an acronym that stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism.

It's a continuum of the last loves that fear to be brought into ...

Fri Apr 12, 2019 6:48 pm • 17 Replies • 6348 Views

A Harem

While I would debate MasterRenton's numbers when he said each one triples the stress as I think it's more n^(n-1), I would just add my nickel to his third point about getting everyone on the same page ...

Tue Apr 09, 2019 1:39 am • 10 Replies • 10913 Views

The Fellowship of the Kink

One does not simply walk into Mordor.

Sorry. It had to be done.

But, yeah. I agree with the sentiment. I see no point or purpose in telling someone else "you're doing it wrong" when you weren ...

Sat Apr 06, 2019 12:48 pm • 3 Replies • 2728 Views

I need advice

I have very little to add to MissBonnie's well thought response. And so probably shouldn't.

But, I will just chip my nickle in that in my case, I am very much a D-type with very little submit in m ...

Thu Apr 04, 2019 11:31 am • 10 Replies • 7220 Views

I don’t know what sort of relationship and lifestyle is right for me.

Well, for whatever it may be worth (probably slightly less than you are paying for it) I've picked up a little something kicking my tin can down the side of this gravel road for awhile now that may (o ...

Sat Mar 30, 2019 12:00 pm • 7 Replies • 3695 Views

Moody Dom (or sub)

A lot of good and sensible advice here. Frankly, I almost past on by without a whisper to let anyone know I'd been here.

However, one thing I haven't seen mentioned that may (or may not) be worth ...

Wed Mar 27, 2019 12:36 am • 22 Replies • 11431 Views

DDLG new daddy

A tad bit over a year ago, I got into a discussion with a self-proclaimed "submissive people pleaser" about DD/lg.

Now, the thing is, I'd misspent some time, money, and energy in my college years t ...

Tue Mar 26, 2019 12:25 pm • 7 Replies • 7424 Views

Time travel

Mmmm. Honestly, I can't say that I have any sage advice to give to my younger self. Maybe, "do it all harder, faster, and longer!"

I don't know. I don't really have that many regrets. And few a ...

Tue Mar 26, 2019 9:03 am • 19 Replies • 12597 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

https://youtu.be/k7zvffHu_wo

Wed Mar 20, 2019 10:18 am • 267 Replies • 116814 Views

Trust

For me, words are just words. Actions are what matter. The intent may mean something, but the effect is always going to be more important.

I say you are my priority. But, do I set aside everythi ...

Sun Mar 17, 2019 7:03 pm • 16 Replies • 9917 Views