What are your fetishes?

Female genital torture with "torture" quite loosely defined depending upon the partner and level of experience.

Thu Apr 18, 2019 9:04 pm • 75 Replies • 41305 Views

Just a simple question...

To me BDSM, or at least sexual sadism, is the defining element and "shape" of my sexual life.

But I look at it not so much as me going around inflicting pain, but searching for partners willing to ...

Thu Apr 18, 2019 4:17 pm • 17 Replies • 5527 Views

Time travel

Honestly, apart from telling my younger me where to find the good stuff with regard to porn, and perhaps to take better advantage of the best of times, I really wouldn't change anything as far as BDSM ...

Thu Apr 18, 2019 3:56 pm • 19 Replies • 10515 Views

Help With Increasing My Tolerance to Pain

For me at lest, "a lot of pain" isn't an absolute. Just like "a lot of money" varies depending on how wealthy you are.

In terms of the amount or degree of pain I inflict on a sub, it depends very m ...

Tue Apr 16, 2019 6:23 pm • 21 Replies • 11188 Views

Help With Increasing My Tolerance to Pain

The experience of pain is very subjective. I'm sure most people have been surprised to find a wound on their body and having no idea when it happened.

People get used to pain if they choose to acce ...

Tue Apr 16, 2019 3:51 pm • 21 Replies • 11188 Views

BDSM without sex?

It depends a lot on what you mean by "sex". I'm happy to play without intercourse or oral. However, much of my SM play involves my partner's genitals, so using their erotic responses and even orgasms ...

Tue Apr 16, 2019 3:04 pm • 9 Replies • 3283 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hi everyone!

I'm male, and a lifelong Dom (more SM Top actually). Right now I'm just interested in meeting and talking to similar minded people, having just come out of a four year on line relation ...

Tue Apr 16, 2019 2:50 pm • 3055 Replies • 889753 Views