Positive Masculinity

America is a paradox. We still have Puritan values imbedded in our psyche and the 'rough' and tumble' frontier mentality. It shows in the Hollywood movies. There is not a whole lot of differentiatio ...

Sun Aug 09, 2020 12:06 pm • 11 Replies • 4548 Views

Developing feelings

I think this goes beyond BDSM. I personally can have romantic /infatuated feelings for someone I have not known for very long and there is always a rush at the beginning of a relationship. I may be ...

Sun Aug 09, 2020 8:49 am • 26 Replies • 6812 Views

I am taking on this one. ;)

Bunnie, I agree, toxicity is not a masculine trait...it is a human trait that unfortunately has become all to prevalent. When we have no accountability, do whatever we want with no regard for anyone, ...

Sun Aug 09, 2020 8:37 am • 11 Replies • 4548 Views

Growth is hard work

Logic, rationality, inspirational leadership, patience, kindness, tenderness...
It’s difficult to name individual characteristics like a checklist. When it comes to recognising positive masculinity, ...

Sun Aug 09, 2020 8:31 am • 11 Replies • 4548 Views

How to sext?

My suggestion: be a little subtle. Work it, Don't give everything away at once.
if it is a dominant man he will probably tell you the pose he wants.

Tue Jul 14, 2020 8:04 am • 10 Replies • 4764 Views

Brat training

I don't think there is a one size fits all answer. Every brat is different and will be motivated by different things, and the methods will also change according to what needs to be accomplished. Rew ...

Sun Feb 09, 2020 7:15 am • 2 Replies • 3064 Views

What should you do if you catch your new Dom in a lie

I think being accountable is a two way street. If he expects to know where you are, he should be honest about where he is. This lie sets off a pretty major red flag. Makes me wonder what else he is ...

Sun Feb 09, 2020 6:44 am • 30 Replies • 13329 Views