Are you a true masochist?

I think that was communicated as well. It was the use of "true" that people struggled with. I am a "true masochist" in that I get turned on by pain. . But I'm also more than that. I think she was aski ...

Thu Sep 03, 2020 4:19 am • 115 Replies • 17384 Views

Are you a true masochist?

There have been plenty of masochists who have responded. They just also happen to be submissive. I'm a masochist. I'm also submissive. Many of us have multiple identities, none of which negate the oth ...

Thu Sep 03, 2020 3:47 am • 115 Replies • 17384 Views

Re: PROFILE DOESNT EXIST

just an fyi, someone may have reported the OP’s anti-trans comments, so she has left us for now. i would love to take credit, but alas it was not i.

Strong work to the person who did. Fuck a transp ...

Thu Sep 03, 2020 3:39 am • 115 Replies • 17384 Views

Sadism and Masochism

I'll throw in a newer evolution of RACK to the mix that fits my personal masochism-

PRICK

Personal
Responsibility
Informed
Consensual
Kink

https://lovingbdsm.kaylalords.com/2018/05/02/s ...

Mon Aug 31, 2020 8:13 am • 54 Replies • 9536 Views

Confused, Mono, message?

While I agree with Miss Bonnie (and not to derail anymore) regarding the frequency of male submissives into this, I would urge you Adoring, to not limit it to male subs. I'm female and have been in se ...

Mon Aug 31, 2020 8:09 am • 44 Replies • 7493 Views

Lesbian kink in the media

I can't think of anything currently in mainstream media, but I strongly recommend The Crashpad Series for high quality, ethically produced queer porn. Like, legit queer porn. Not 2 women doing each ot ...

Thu Aug 27, 2020 10:53 am • 2 Replies • 3255 Views

What Is The Hanky Code?

I forgot to add that like Wakko said, boot laces can be used as well.

Thu Aug 13, 2020 4:33 am • 5 Replies • 2464 Views

What Is The Hanky Code?

The hanky code comes out of gay leather tradition. Before the internet was a thing, gay men would wear different colored bandanas in their back pocket that signaled what they were into (s&m, water ...

Thu Aug 13, 2020 4:31 am • 5 Replies • 2464 Views

Gay and Bisexual (or other non heteronormative variants)

I'm a queer, lesbian, submissive, cisgender woman. I also identify as a boi, in terms of being a masculine of center (not quite butch but desperately wishing I was one) female submissive. Girl just do ...

Sat Jul 25, 2020 3:10 am • 17 Replies • 3934 Views

How did you choose your title?

Oops. My name is not my title, lol. I don't really have a title but I do identity as a boi, a queer, masculine of center but still (in my case) female identified, submissive. It fits far better than g ...

Thu Jul 16, 2020 10:06 am • 26 Replies • 8469 Views