Honorifics/Titles- More Than Just One??

You and your partner can use as many different names for one another as you both agree to use.

It sounds like you're thinking about what meaning to attach to different ways of addressing one anothe ...

Sat Aug 14, 2021 5:34 pm • 9 Replies • 5531 Views

What’s the difference.

Why limit things to just fucking and making love? Kink means a broader field of options!

I'm fond of "We're not fucking; I'm masturbating using your body as a sex toy."

Then there's sex as a for ...

Fri Aug 13, 2021 9:08 pm • 7 Replies • 2316 Views

Struggling to settle into being a dom

One of the most fundamental lessons for finding success and happiness in kink is "There is no One True Way." When you read something about how to be a dom that that doesn't suit you, don't stress abou ...

Fri Aug 13, 2021 6:07 pm • 12 Replies • 4194 Views

BDSM and Zodiac Signs

It's fun and that's all it's meant to be. As with everything else, if it's not your thing why bother to reply and rip at people who enjoy it?

Read the OP. To paraphrase, it says "There's something ...

Sat Aug 07, 2021 7:55 pm • 78 Replies • 22317 Views

BDSM and Zodiac Signs

One of many, many ways to show that astrology is bullshit is a fun game where you take a big room full of people, have them tell you their birthdays and hand them astrology readings. If you have them ...

Fri Aug 06, 2021 7:46 am • 78 Replies • 22317 Views

BDSM and Zodiac Signs

The day of the year on which you were born does not influence your life in any way.

Unless you were born on a major holiday, and then all it does is ruin your birthdays.

Fri Aug 06, 2021 4:45 am • 78 Replies • 22317 Views

Discussing Dominant Women personals

By having men perform what is traditionally considered "women's work", it signifies that the woman is absolutely the one in control and enforces the power exchange dynamic.

Bingo.

Differences in ...

Sat Jul 31, 2021 6:34 pm • 22 Replies • 7306 Views

Who is in Charge? Surely it’s the Dom…but is it

So you're saying the submissive has the power because they can withdraw their consent. Do you think dominants can't withdraw their own consent?

Short version: the person with more power in a consen ...

Fri Jul 30, 2021 6:17 pm • 44 Replies • 14119 Views

Everything subspace!

To zoom out one more level from what DrWakko said: There is no singular experience called "subspace" because different people use the word to refer to different kinds of experience. There are at least ...

Thu Jun 24, 2021 4:59 pm • 10 Replies • 4741 Views

starting the self training

Kudos to you for taking the initiative to train yourself.

A lot of the really fundamental things for learning to submit well are less about kinky play and more about self-awareness, self discipline ...

Thu Jun 24, 2021 4:45 pm • 5 Replies • 3518 Views