dom class

There are a lot of classes available on a wide range of skills that are relevant for dominating. Having one class that teaches everything about being a dom might be a bit much to ask.

Here are a ...

Sat Feb 27, 2021 2:59 am • 12 Replies • 5073 Views

True dominance

I think I agree with the general sense of what you're saying, that dominance (beyond short term fantasy play) isn't just a matter of barking orders and being obeyed, but requires a deep understanding ...

Thu Feb 25, 2021 7:48 pm • 10 Replies • 4670 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

I've known a few people who were fully, firmly poly identified, were organizers for poly groups, and swore to high heaven that poly is who they were... who are now happily settled down in monogamous r ...

Wed Feb 24, 2021 2:36 am • 53 Replies • 13778 Views

Kitten Play Online

Online kitten play is when you sit on your keyboard and refuse to move.


More seriously, I can think of a few directions one could go with it.

You could do straight up fantasy roleplay, wher ...

Wed Feb 24, 2021 1:09 am • 5 Replies • 2551 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

There's a difference between having a word for what you do, and identifying something as an aspect of who you are.

I'm responding to someone asking how they figure out whether they *are* polyamorou ...

Tue Feb 23, 2021 11:20 pm • 53 Replies • 13778 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

Or you don't have to identify as any of it.

Some people find it helpful to think of themselves as "wired" for monogamy or polyamory. To say "I am polyamorous" in the same way you'd say "I am five f ...

Tue Feb 23, 2021 7:47 pm • 53 Replies • 13778 Views

Re: Switch

I can tell you for certain that it's possible. I've had great relationships with people who dominated in their other relationships and submitted full time to me.

I can also tell you that this belie ...

Mon Feb 22, 2021 6:21 pm • 5 Replies • 2622 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

I understand that Polygamists each have their own way of operating...

FYI: "Polygamy" refers to a very different kind of practice than polyamory or consensual nonmonogamy.

In terms of literal de ...

Sat Feb 20, 2021 1:42 am • 53 Replies • 13778 Views

Ethical Non-Monogamy

Sinclair Sexsmith has some neat things to say on the cruchy details of combining nonmonogamy and power exchange: http://sugarbutch.net/2019/01/outermost-bracket/

The gist of it is that it can be va ...

Sat Feb 20, 2021 1:16 am • 53 Replies • 13778 Views

Books

Here's a concise resource list, including general BDSM resources and focused a bit on power exchange. Take a look at the three books in the "Starting Places" section for some ideal first reads.

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Wed Feb 17, 2021 2:41 am • 7 Replies • 1555 Views