The Rules??

My suggestion is to perform your rules until he either comes back (and you can discuss things from there), or until it simply begins to feel empty, or looking like he’s not coming back. Then reconsi ...

Thu Jul 16, 2020 4:50 am • 11 Replies • 5232 Views

What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

First one:
- "Can you help me find out if I have any limits?"
- "Sure. Would you drink the diarrhea out of a dead goat's ass?
- "GROSS! NO!"
- "My work here is done."

Second one - and yes this ...

Thu Jul 16, 2020 3:55 am • 126 Replies • 42172 Views

Orgasm denial.

Wow, It's already difficult to maintain a LDR of any kind, BDSM or vanilla, and as it is with any dynamic it requires complete trust and respect on both sides. But by email? If you can make that work ...

Thu Jul 16, 2020 2:01 am • 11 Replies • 6293 Views

How did you choose your title?

Funny - I just wrote a whole post about this last month!
The short version is that someone invented it for me to be used for non-person-to-person communication between me and an anonymous fuckbuddy. ...

Wed Jul 15, 2020 11:45 pm • 26 Replies • 9575 Views

BDSM Porn Sucks

The thing is, BDSM porn is not what it professes to be, and people who view pornos as educational vids are not the Connoisseur of Kink they aspire to be. The reason is the same for both: This is porn ...

Wed Jul 01, 2020 9:11 pm • 17 Replies • 6261 Views

Avoiding pitfalls

As was previously mentioned, 'insta-doms' (or 'wanna-doms' as I call them. In either case they give the rest of us a bad name) are to be avoided, and fortunately they are pretty simple to identify. An ...

Wed Jun 24, 2020 8:05 am • 13 Replies • 6536 Views

everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

(I just made up this joke about 5 minutes ago specifically for this thread so be kind)

The owner of a modeling agency and a man with huge smile across his face walk into a bar.
The bartender asked ...

Thu Jun 18, 2020 1:57 pm • 477 Replies • 138811 Views

So yea that just happened...

you should probably talk to me about this. 🙂 that's what friends are for.

Fri Mar 06, 2020 6:39 am • 32 Replies • 11289 Views

How do you know if your a good sub?

For starters, your premise is faulty.

When speaking of a D/s dynamic there is simply no such thing as Good or Bad. Yours is a question of compatibility, not quality of submission.
This is the same ...

Thu Feb 13, 2020 3:14 am • 7 Replies • 3377 Views

Just 4 fun: Sexy word game. Rules: Must be a sexy word.

Succulent

Wed Nov 13, 2019 11:47 am • 6675 Replies • 1198231 Views