Time wasters?

As usual I find Heero's voice the most accurate and logical. Thank you for speaking Sir.

To the OP, I empathize like many of us do. Its an issue on any dating platform, and your post is not the fi ...

Sat Apr 22, 2023 7:31 pm • 65 Replies • 8974 Views

Advice on being turned down by a Dominant.

Move on. Start talking to other people. I understand you feel he is everything you feel you want, however, you have been rejected. I understand you feel there is still a slightly open door called the ...

Sat Apr 22, 2023 7:10 pm • 33 Replies • 5549 Views

BDSM

Welcome to the community and the lifestyle.

LIken your role toe captain of a ship. You are in charge of yourself and your crew. You make the decisions to steer the ship towards safety, security an ...

Tue Apr 18, 2023 7:16 pm • 8 Replies • 2060 Views

Heart Profile

It swings from lady to lady. In general I find the majority of likes on my profile are an invitation to chat from a lady who is at least remotely interested.

I would guess and advise that most peo ...

Fri Apr 14, 2023 4:31 am • 23 Replies • 3661 Views

BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

Your argument doesn't hold here.

It is not a right to force others to take additional actions and justify themselves about not wanting to speak with you or another person. It is in fact a right an ...

Sat Apr 08, 2023 3:24 am • 34 Replies • 6436 Views

BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

No. For a few reasons.

As stated people do not owe you or anyone else their time, though I will disagree on the especially women concept mentioned above.

People also have a right to maintain the ...

Sat Apr 01, 2023 7:19 pm • 34 Replies • 6436 Views

Need advice on whether wife’s new Dom is shady.

Pure, There's an element of truth to what you say. However that doesn't mean the doubts are worth saying.

Its perfectly feasible that an individual outside the community in a wave of despair and d ...

Tue Mar 14, 2023 7:44 am • 37 Replies • 6333 Views

Potential site improvements?

Just today I thought of another I would personally enjoy. The ability to hide one's age on their profile.

I say this largely because there are a large number of profiles which do not display their ...

Fri Mar 10, 2023 4:41 am • 29 Replies • 4505 Views

Potential site improvements?

Haha, perhaps I am too polite and do not wish to push a girl the point of "go fuck a duck".

I understand, or at least hope I do to some extent, the bombardment ladies can get on the sites. I try my ...

Wed Feb 22, 2023 11:45 pm • 29 Replies • 4505 Views

Potential site improvements?

I would like to put my full endorsement behind Miki's idea. Speaking from someone who acts as the initiator in conversation...its really challenging without accurate online information. I have a few ...

Wed Feb 22, 2023 11:14 pm • 29 Replies • 4505 Views