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Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

I appreciate the sentiment. Thank you.

I think there's more discourse to be had in this direction, but I recognize that I am becoming a cause for digression and I wish not to so firmly steer the to ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 10:14 am • 26 Replies • 5346 Views

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Solace

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

True, and its a remark I expected hence the comment about limited opportunities for discourse on this thread.

A man makes a comment preferring one of the literal two options and he is called out f ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 9:46 am • 26 Replies • 5346 Views

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Solace

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

^ Case and point. I've apparently announced myself as a huge red flag for having preferences.

Tue Jun 18, 2024 9:19 am • 26 Replies • 5346 Views

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Solace

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

I am not certain you will get a productive and diverse conversation out of this. It is my sincere hope that you will, but virtue signalling is a real thing on the cage. The perceived "right" answer is ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 8:51 am • 26 Replies • 5346 Views

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Solace

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

Father's Day Inspiration

Hello Miki, always a pleasure.

I don't blame myself. It's part of growing up learning these things. I just identify it for what it was and is.

I do feel great sympathy for my father now. I refl ...

Fri Jun 14, 2024 10:22 pm • 10 Replies • 2637 Views

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Solace

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Generally Speaking

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Father's Day Inspiration

What is your perfect day?

I rented a cabin once. It over looked a quiet lake in the middle of a cold grey winter. Outside the orange tinted light gently eased back the black dark to show sleepy drifts of snow on the deck accum ...

Fri Jun 14, 2024 11:58 am • 8 Replies • 1239 Views

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Solace

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Just for Fun

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What is your perfect day?

Father's Day Inspiration

Thank you for your kind words. I think that for many regardless of the love or hate they have for their father, it is a great fear to not be able meet or surpass them. Especially after all my father h ...

Fri Jun 14, 2024 2:27 am • 10 Replies • 2637 Views

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Solace

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Generally Speaking

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Father's Day Inspiration

I hated my father growing up. He was never around. When he was, he was an angry man who stayed in our home. A stranger uninvited and cruel.

He was genuinely shocked the day I asked him how his work ...

Fri Jun 14, 2024 2:13 am • 10 Replies • 2637 Views

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Solace

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Generally Speaking

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Father's Day Inspiration

Question For The Guys

I can't say its something that all men have. I do think its how a lot of men are raised this way, whether we get a chance to or even know how to act on it or not.

I have a modest example of when th ...

Sun Jun 09, 2024 8:54 am • 21 Replies • 3880 Views

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Solace

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Generally Speaking

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Question For The Guys

Clingy Subs

I don't see anything wrong with the question. Its a thing. While it can be welcome, I often hear it in a negative light both here and in what we call the vanilla world.

Regretfully I don't have goo ...

Fri Jun 07, 2024 12:37 pm • 54 Replies • 10626 Views

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Solace

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Clingy Subs