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Why subs with trauma feel scared trusting

I really feel this in the depths of my soul. People will fake their intentions and because of our past trauma it can be hard to see through the facade and to know what is genuine. Hopefully we found w ...

Thu May 21, 2026 5:41 am • 2 Replies • 168 Views

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SimpforTomiokaSan

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Why subs with trauma feel scared trusting

Do men really like women?

Oh, that’s a good one. A lot of people don’t know how to handle big emotions right? Thank you for your insight!

Thu Apr 24, 2025 10:59 am • 117 Replies • 26260 Views

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SimpforTomiokaSan

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Generally Speaking

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Do men really like women?

I saw a Tik tok recently that said that straight men are attracted to women but don’t really like them. I’ll repeat. Straight men are attracted to women, but don’t really like them, as people. What do ...

Thu Apr 24, 2025 9:40 am • 117 Replies • 26260 Views

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SimpforTomiokaSan

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Generally Speaking

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Do men really like women?

Fisting

Dang DemonFlood, thank you for your amazing and extremely insightful reply. I learned a lot from your thoughtful response.

Sat Aug 10, 2024 10:52 am • 16 Replies • 4298 Views

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SimpforTomiokaSan

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Generally Speaking

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Fisting

Straight to the point with this one…but has anyone tried vaginal and/or anal fisting with a partner and if so, is it a real intense experience for both people? Thanks for your time and responses!

Wed Aug 07, 2024 3:08 pm • 16 Replies • 4298 Views

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SimpforTomiokaSan

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Generally Speaking

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Fisting

Low effort messages from dudes

It’s like they’re not even trying to initiate a real conversation. Like casting a line with no bait.

Thu May 23, 2024 11:01 pm • 49 Replies • 12542 Views

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SimpforTomiokaSan

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Generally Speaking

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Low effort messages from dudes

Butt Plugs and Anal Play

Hello kinksters!

I wanted to ask a question to anyone who is experienced or just starting to experience anal play. I have been terrified yet intrigued with someone else or myself playing with my bu ...

Mon Apr 29, 2024 10:58 am • 21 Replies • 8041 Views

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SimpforTomiokaSan

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Absolute Beginners

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Butt Plugs and Anal Play

sub book club: Conquer Me

I read the synopsis on it, it sounds interesting and sexy, I put a hold on it at my local library ?

Sun Sep 17, 2023 12:01 pm • 7 Replies • 1330 Views

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SimpforTomiokaSan

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Generally Speaking

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sub book club: Conquer Me

Could someone explain Old Guard vs. New Guard

I have read briefly on the internet that it has its roots in the military but I would like to know more about it from someone who lives it or adheres to it. Thank you!

Sun Sep 03, 2023 2:08 pm • 20 Replies • 7194 Views

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SimpforTomiokaSan

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Generally Speaking

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Could someone explain Old Guard vs. New Guard

Live-In Slaves

I was curious how a 24/7 live-in TPE slave situation works? Does that mean the Dom manages every single detail of their lives including all their bills? I’ve always wondered about this and hope someon ...

Wed Mar 01, 2023 11:11 am • 32 Replies • 16133 Views

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SimpforTomiokaSan

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Live-In Slaves