Am I turning into a Dom? Or into a switch?

Also, I like to take care of someone but I don't like serving people, in non-sexual ways.

To me, if a person on either side of the slash is getting what they need or want from the other person, t ...

Tue Feb 01, 2022 1:15 am • 21 Replies • 7852 Views

Gynae chair

Gynae chairs for sale in UK (google is our friend)

https://swemed.co.uk/shop/equipment-furniture/medical-furniture/treatment-tables/gynecological-examination-chairs/

Tue Feb 01, 2022 12:27 am • 13 Replies • 7138 Views

Gynae chair

Here's one

https://bdsmsextreme.com/product/buy-electric-gynecologist-chair-bdsm-online/

Mon Jan 31, 2022 9:03 pm • 13 Replies • 7138 Views

Communication: The KEY to our dynamics... But when does it become "Topping from the bottom"

When people try to sell the concept that bdsm is all about the dom, that the dom has total and complete control, that a subs needs, wants and desires, how they feel, their limits, what they would like ...

Sun Jan 30, 2022 9:37 pm • 16 Replies • 5481 Views

Communication: The KEY to our dynamics... But when does it become "Topping from the bottom"

When people try to sell the concept that bdsm is all about the dom, that the dom has total and complete control, that a subs needs, wants and desires, how they feel, their limits, what they would like ...

Sun Jan 30, 2022 8:30 pm • 16 Replies • 5481 Views

Communication: The KEY to our dynamics... But when does it become "Topping from the bottom"

Great conversation, wishing i was not constrained by time... gotta go to work in 10 minutes.

To me, 'topping from the bottom' is more of an attitude than anything else. i think it's particularly e ...

Sun Jan 30, 2022 5:05 pm • 16 Replies • 5481 Views

Is this strange?

In some places, it's a way of life.

Sun Jan 23, 2022 9:35 pm • 18 Replies • 8931 Views

Fun Game for Dominants!

I cook, I read, and I have a teddy bear.

The bear does have a ball gag. Lol

lmao. Perfect.

Sun Jan 23, 2022 9:33 pm • 47 Replies • 16759 Views

Questions

What Ms Mary Jane said.

i think there is hook up D/s (in this case) and there is relational. i see the first as a sort of fast food that can temporarily fill the void, but i don't think it nouris ...

Sun Jan 23, 2022 8:38 pm • 4 Replies • 3098 Views

What to do other than beg for attention

i know that when thirsty, there are times we just really need something to drink.
That said:

Maybe try practicing attentiveness. Not as a manipulation, i.e., doing so in an attempt to bait and sw ...

Sun Jan 23, 2022 8:07 pm • 36 Replies • 11217 Views