Re: Submissive in principle but not in practice - how to adj

I am interested in outside opinion vs. my situation...

We are both relatively new to the lifestyle but /sub (she) has issues from her childhood. Compensated for it by rebelling at 13 or 14 & ...

Tue Aug 04, 2020 5:23 pm • 15 Replies • 6454 Views

I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

Wow, tuff and complicated situation, i am sorry.


i'd suggest couple counseling. There are so many angles here, i believe it would be impossible to give specific input without a good overview o ...

Mon Aug 03, 2020 10:57 pm • 32 Replies • 12739 Views

Sub Support

i've had a sub nature that i can trace back to kindergarten. Gay, bottom with sub. Grew up and was conditioned by a particular religious culture that equated being gay with being "broken" and "sinful ...

Mon Aug 03, 2020 7:46 pm • 10 Replies • 3632 Views

Re: Penis Dildo for Deep throat

I’m currently in an online Dom/sub relationship and looking to advance my skills as a sub. What’s the best dildo for oral deep throat training?

I’m in the UK, so would be preferable that I could fi ...

Sun Aug 02, 2020 7:23 pm • 8 Replies • 4645 Views

Intentional cruelty or ignorance?

Was I ghosted, yes of course. Did I ghost others in my life, have to admit yes. Every person who is ghosting is not mine and after a short time I'm back to myself and learned something. Teachers come ...

Sun Aug 02, 2020 4:45 pm • 16 Replies • 4871 Views

Intentional cruelty or ignorance?

NoClvrNickname wrote: "It’s also entirely possible that the “ghoster” is trying to avoid hurting the “ghostee” - rather than saying “I don’t think we are compatible” or “I’m not attracted to you” (OUC ...

Sat Aug 01, 2020 8:43 pm • 16 Replies • 4871 Views

Re: At which age did you realize your submission or Dominanc

I was asked this question once, and it gave me pause.
My submission was simply natural to me.
Yet I began thinking ...what a great question -
When was my defining moment?

In retrospect...
There ...

Sat Aug 01, 2020 7:30 pm • 95 Replies • 31091 Views

Intentional cruelty or ignorance?

i have some wonderful friends on this site and, have also read more than a few posts in forum, relating stories of "ghosting" or abandonment or whatever one might call it. I don't think the phenomena ...

Sat Aug 01, 2020 6:43 pm • 16 Replies • 4871 Views

Re: Submissive guy learning to submit.

Hey everybody I'm a young guy who likes to submit to men, and I would like to learn more about what being a good submissive involves. I'm willing to hear anyone's opinion both subs and Dom's. So if yo ...

Sat Aug 01, 2020 5:05 pm • 4 Replies • 3050 Views

What book are you reading now

Sapiens

Fri Jul 31, 2020 6:08 pm • 31 Replies • 10187 Views