Not sure if I should keep going or give up.

This suggests to me that you have expectations... either recognised or unrecognised.

i think this whole post is wonderfully insightful Bunnie.

It seems our desires and needs often venture into ...

Fri Jun 19, 2020 4:02 pm • 21 Replies • 8711 Views

Does anyone think that dirty talk has gotten lazy?

For me, it's not 'dirty talk' if it's not real. my idea of dirty talk is the deep thoughts and desires, especially the taboo ones, that make it to the surface. Anything contrived or obvious effort to ...

Thu Jun 18, 2020 4:02 pm • 16 Replies • 6750 Views

Attraction and profile pictures

It's sad, but fear is a common reason for not posting pictures.

The fear of those pics being abused by someone unscrupulous has some basis in reason. Social rejection for being outed as a kinkster ...

Wed Jun 17, 2020 3:43 pm • 63 Replies • 23396 Views

Re: Married or single subs?

...what should be the better option? Being married and "cheating" on tour wife when you play with a domme from time to time? Or being single and live the lifestyle at it's full, attending events, visi ...

Mon Jun 15, 2020 6:45 pm • 14 Replies • 8701 Views

Feminine males

i think there's been lots of great comments and observations on this and find myself nodding with most of them.

i'm a gay guy and i apparently don't come across as fem at all? i say "apparently" be ...

Mon Jun 15, 2020 4:28 pm • 12 Replies • 7063 Views

Male Chastity Devices

Chastity is definitly one of my buttons, with several buttons attached to the button lol.

i own 6 cages of different sizes and material. Half are metal, half plastic (i like the metal better, psych ...

Thu Jun 11, 2020 8:39 pm • 23 Replies • 15438 Views

Preferences... & why we have them

i think this is a great topic... and huge. Thank you for asking.

i don't know where to go with this without writing a book (that'll never be read lol), so having to choose the angle of approach to ...

Thu Jun 11, 2020 7:10 pm • 1 Replies • 1486 Views

Re: Newbs

Ive notivmced there has been a lot of new ppl coming on in the last few months. Yea I know, most of them are coming out of their own respective closets cause they're not suposed longer out of the hous ...

Wed Jun 10, 2020 9:24 pm • 7 Replies • 3300 Views

Life

Thank you for sharing a piece of your self. i enjoy reading your contributions, and sometimes wonder if you are using a phone to write on? Some of your words are puzzles "whatvthebgrown."

i thin ...

Wed Jun 10, 2020 8:27 pm • 2 Replies • 1765 Views

It Would Be Nice

Aw well, I am sorry you all took it that way.

If you judge me though, shouldn't you know me pesonally before you do that? None of you know me well enough to know my preferences, yet you still judg ...

Wed Jun 10, 2020 6:31 pm • 21 Replies • 7522 Views