Chastity Turn on.

The cages i have used are usually metal (though some seem to like plastic). They don't present a huge problem if one showers and cleans. Most have a hole for urniating. i have a couple of micro cages ...

Tue May 05, 2020 3:27 am • 22 Replies • 13679 Views

Confusion about Punishments

I appreciate all the feedback I am getting! @tallslenderguy, what you described is exactly what I think would work best for me. I know that positive reinforcement would make me adore a Dom! Like you, ...

Tue May 05, 2020 12:56 am • 14 Replies • 7697 Views

Re: Confusion about Punishments

I am not an experienced submissive but I do know something about behavior modification. I'm probably kicking a hornet's nest but for some time I have struggled with how some Dom's punish their subs. I ...

Mon May 04, 2020 11:02 pm • 14 Replies • 7697 Views

What is a submissive really?

@ Tallslender.....
I think you are correct, he may have unwittingly assumed the girl status in his response, but I am glad you find it applicable in your own way. Male or female, a sub mindset is ju ...

Mon May 04, 2020 8:23 pm • 30 Replies • 11191 Views

Fetish Gear

Micro cock cage. Oh hell, yes. But it only works with someone to put it on me. i like it better than the cages that hold the shaft, actually more comfortable for me because on me it works by internal ...

Mon May 04, 2020 6:29 pm • 8 Replies • 5526 Views

What is a submissive really?

My standard disclaimer applies. I write from the perspective and world-view of an alpha hetero male within a 365-24/7 TPE, RL long term relationship. Not saying this is the only way for everyone. S ...

Mon May 04, 2020 5:41 pm • 30 Replies • 11191 Views

The Struggles of a male submissive

1) be prepared to meet up at a munch or coffee shop. I dont trust people who dont want to engage with me first in a vanilla setting.

Lots of women (myself included) use this as to minimize the inh ...

Sun May 03, 2020 3:55 pm • 19 Replies • 12346 Views

Be an adult

I get the anxiety that Sinity notes, though i maybe have a ‘more sub response’ to dynamics that are not working in that i always seem to question if I’ve exhausted every angle before shutting down an ...

Sun May 03, 2020 12:53 am • 8 Replies • 4076 Views

The Struggles of a male submissive

Thank you for your post. Though i’m a gay guy with some sub in me, I think your points about having a profile and dileniating limits is universal. I will not approach or respond to a Dom who does not ...

Sat May 02, 2020 8:59 pm • 19 Replies • 12346 Views

Can your identity change?

Wow, love this question.

i ascribe to the spectrum theory on sexuality and believe it is multidimensional and fluid. Having said that, i think there are parts of us that are more static than othe ...

Fri May 01, 2020 5:57 am • 5 Replies • 4089 Views