Conversing between the sexes

I honestly think we do and we don’t.( I don’t think it’s a gender thing) As a kinker we are brought to a world of endless possibilities and no matter what we come in with preconceived notions about th ...

Sat Mar 02, 2024 1:16 pm • 12 Replies • 830 Views

FAVORITE/UNIQUE RULE IN YOUR DYNAMIC

OK so. this is for fun I would like to know what your favorite or unique rule is in your dynamic( and if your self collared or single a unique rule you want in your dynamic)
I'll go first I saw thi ...

Thu Sep 15, 2022 8:56 pm • 10 Replies • 1271 Views

Sub/slave training?

Thanks everyone for your input. I guess I should have phrased it more "education" and not "training." I have about 7 yrs in the scene so I'm not a newbie, but of course all words of caution are alway ...

Mon Oct 18, 2021 3:15 pm • 13 Replies • 5257 Views

Pet play cat tree

I can. Lmk what you are looking for ill see what i can do

Thu Apr 15, 2021 8:15 pm • 3 Replies • 1931 Views

Most men don't blog. Why?

i hate writing. i have nothing of value to add. i am a jokester i go for the quick and easy laughs. i am not one to have anything of sustaniance to add that will stand the test of time. so i stick to ...

Tue Sep 15, 2020 4:13 pm • 35 Replies • 11046 Views

I'm lost

reaperx​(sadist male)

Me and my wife live in the same State and are in the same boat. I know 2 ppl that are kinky like me in the surrounding area. However within a few hours there are several dung ...

Thu Aug 20, 2020 2:39 pm • 19 Replies • 5177 Views

I'm lost

reaperx​(sadist male)

Me and my wife live in the same State and are in the same boat. I know 2 ppl that are kinky like me in the surrounding area. However within a few hours there are several dung ...

Thu Aug 20, 2020 2:24 pm • 19 Replies • 5177 Views

Question for Dom or Sub, would like both perspectives

Here are my answers:

1. Is it normal for the Dom to continue to bring it up? Even send photos of a collar they both like but then say the Dom is not getting it because the sub can't be collared? ...

Tue Aug 11, 2020 6:51 pm • 29 Replies • 9678 Views

I'd like to pose a question.

i would love it. my sub just surprised me at work. i am only happy to see that they think of me when I'm not around. my Sub and i work different shifts so ill be home while she is working and i will g ...

Tue Jun 02, 2020 8:24 pm • 28 Replies • 11467 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

I got by TheNiceSadist. it's oxymoronic. I am a nice person and deeply care. but i am not afraid to get the job done. I currently changed my name to Dr. Pepper cuz it's my friends favorite drink and s ...

Tue Jun 02, 2020 6:02 pm • 267 Replies • 94906 Views