Your “Radioactive Spider Bite” Into Kink

Not the worst use of deception. Haha. I appreciate the effort she put into the ruse. Do you think if she'd just brought it up in conversation you would have been into it?

I think I would have. We w ...

Wed Jan 20, 2021 5:14 am • 7 Replies • 2449 Views

Your “Radioactive Spider Bite” Into Kink

My very first girlfriend asked me to buy a book she wanted but couldn't afford. It was a big book, sort of an encyclopedia of sex and sexual practise. When we were alone she had this idea we should op ...

Wed Jan 20, 2021 4:29 am • 7 Replies • 2449 Views

Post-Dynamic Questions

I'm not saying it's wrong. It would depend a lot on the circumstances, what the questions are and who you ask.
Once I had a friend. He identified as a Dom but he was very insecure. We were members of ...

Sun Jan 17, 2021 9:55 am • 9 Replies • 1937 Views

What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

I actually have a problem with this, and I probably shouldn't confess, but showing submission, whether consciously or not.
A curtsy or addressing me as Sir. If a waitress does this she automatically ...

Sun Jan 17, 2021 9:30 am • 119 Replies • 28761 Views

Dear Kit...BDSM vs Love

What's super sensitive about it?

Some do love, some do business, some do both. What matters is to agree upon it or deal with change.
I for one have loved all my partners. Slaves, subs or vanillas. ...

Sun Jan 17, 2021 7:23 am • 12 Replies • 3579 Views

Help please

I don't know what kind of background check you did, but I think you would be crazy to meet him without doing what you can to be safe.
I'm not always doing things the way one are supposed to in this " ...

Sun Dec 13, 2020 4:10 am • 32 Replies • 7934 Views

Does anyone else share this fetish? "Object penetration"

Same for me when a 20 something starts correcting my knowledge of the lifestyle But in my scenario... I pretty much want to stick the stick in their eye. Is that wrong? It doesn't feel wrong... hmm
I ...

Tue Dec 08, 2020 4:46 am • 27 Replies • 9528 Views

Re: Let’s talk about WETNESS ladies/gents

Has anyone else experiences an insane amount of wetness like this? Has anyone experienced a sudden surge in hormones like this? How do I overcome being embarrassed about it?

I have experienced this ...

Mon Dec 07, 2020 7:06 pm • 11 Replies • 4602 Views

So...How Did Yall Meet?

I found K on a BDSM site. I found my ex on a BDSM site. I found my ex before her on a BDSM site.
So I think I'll stick to BDSM sites. They seem to work for me.

Fri Dec 04, 2020 4:11 am • 24 Replies • 5736 Views

What is it really...

And finally, you also said they're BOTH attracted to each other. But that isn't a difference is it? Unless you mean they're attracted to each other for different reasons. In that case your statement m ...

Sun Nov 29, 2020 2:20 am • 40 Replies • 9476 Views