Threesomes

It's going to vary from person to person. My fiance and I are monogamous we don't really have a desire to add a third person to our dynamic, but there are some that do.

Fri Mar 13, 2020 6:58 am • 12 Replies • 6554 Views

Teaching a non-BDSM guy how to be Dom

Can't teach that. It has to come from within-- You're setting yourself up for a failed relationship.

I don't agree. It may be more difficult and it may not always work but it's possible. My fiance ...

Thu Mar 12, 2020 6:30 pm • 14 Replies • 5914 Views

Tips for new Dominants (potentially)?

Thank you 😊 That first forum reference I think will be a lot of help. He's been gaining confidence and as he does I can tell he's really enjoying himself and getting into the roll. I will be sure to s ...

Thu Mar 12, 2020 12:28 am • 8 Replies • 6160 Views

Does being a submissive in BDSM translate to being a follower in normal life?

I'm a control freak otherwise not in all areas of my life but when I worked if it wasn't done a certain way it do my anxiety in. If something isn't cleaned right I'll go back over it until I think it' ...

Tue Mar 10, 2020 7:53 pm • 14 Replies • 7502 Views

How to Institute Orgasm Control

I do tend to hold my breath lol....I'll have to look into this. Ty!

Tue Mar 10, 2020 6:56 pm • 41 Replies • 13694 Views

Tips for new Dominants (potentially)?

Thank you for taking your time to reply. I will be sure to share your insight with Him. You made a lot of good points and I hope it helps Him get more comfortable the more he learns from others

Tue Mar 10, 2020 6:55 am • 8 Replies • 6160 Views

How to Institute Orgasm Control

To be fair he's brand new to this as in we only started the D/s aspect within the last month. Before then it was all vanilla....it took me forever to find the nerve to talk to him. I am reassuring him ...

Tue Mar 10, 2020 12:49 am • 41 Replies • 13694 Views

Tips for new Dominants (potentially)?

I am making this forum for my fiance so i can share with him whatever insight is posted. He's vanilla but after talking with him he is going to try for me. As of right now my understanding is that he ...

Tue Mar 10, 2020 12:31 am • 8 Replies • 6160 Views

How to Institute Orgasm Control

Yes more than once over the past year of having sex. I have anxiety in general so I'm sure that doesn't help. I worry about making him happy he worries if he's making me happy enough so yes what you s ...

Tue Mar 10, 2020 12:26 am • 41 Replies • 13694 Views

How to Institute Orgasm Control

I know part of it is my fiance is the first person I've been with sexually. We were each other's firsts so despite the fact that I am the one slowly introducing him to the BDSM world I still get emba ...

Mon Mar 09, 2020 11:57 pm • 41 Replies • 13694 Views