Is there such a role as a "toy"?

To the original question. A few months ago my sub was a bit off. I could read the signs. She was obviously struggling with something. So I told her she needed to communicate her issue. She sai ...

Tue Aug 25, 2020 7:43 pm • 66 Replies • 22371 Views

newbie sub

I a Dom and don't live in TN. I have Trained a lot of newbies so some solid general advice. Know your hard limits. Best said I may control the scene but sub controls the parameters inside of which ...

Tue Jul 07, 2020 11:03 pm • 21 Replies • 9258 Views

The Approach - able Question

I usually find subs online or through referrals(I train typically) and the questions sometimes feel scripted as do answers. I longed for a chance encouunter with a sub just a random connection......S ...

Tue Jul 07, 2020 6:24 pm • 11 Replies • 4218 Views

Anal

1. If you hate it dont do it. If he cant handle it his problem not yours. When I took on my current sub I inquired about her hard no's. She had 2 one was no CIM. I try to keep a poker face during t ...

Tue Jul 07, 2020 5:48 pm • 23 Replies • 9605 Views

Question for Dom or Sub, would like both perspectives

One of our established rules. Is no more than two drinks. Should an occasion arise like a party or wedding were more intake might happen we "pause" play with the exception of our specific safety rule ...

Tue Jul 07, 2020 5:07 pm • 29 Replies • 10505 Views

Hair or Bare?

Groomed yes bare No! To me girls are bare women have hair. I'm not a full bush guy but a little to me is attractive. When i take on a new sub I instruct her that when she is ready to move from the s ...

Wed Apr 15, 2020 4:17 pm • 138 Replies • 41272 Views