Turn offs in new conversations

Anyone that expects instant submission I always assume is either a bot or a psychopath.

Also not being able to have a non kink conversation….seems to many folks just have forgotten how to show a bi ...

Fri Feb 10, 2023 4:48 pm • 82 Replies • 12580 Views

Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

This place needs a wall of shame. Definitely for accountability reasons and not because I think it would be hilarious or anything.

It would be hilarious though….

Wed Jan 04, 2023 7:19 pm • 23 Replies • 4102 Views

Thoughts on Fetlife

I joined it ages ago, not a fan. Full of findommes and gatekeepers.

Much prefer it here, everyone is just much more approachable and open and the mods/admin take care to make sure standards apply.

Tue Jun 22, 2021 12:42 pm • 57 Replies • 17564 Views

Can you give me some must see movie titles?

If you are just looking for any titles that list could be endless. Here’s a wee list of films that have had a huge impact on my life in terms of world view and just general life...I’ll leave the reas ...

Mon Jun 21, 2021 2:16 pm • 28 Replies • 6153 Views

Green Flags

What a fantastically positive way of looking at things. Love it.

For me taking time to get to know each other personally. Even if they are a match kink wise I like to know that someone is more th ...

Mon Jun 21, 2021 2:02 pm • 21 Replies • 6677 Views

Word association game

Denied

When I say hope you say

Mon Mar 15, 2021 1:45 pm • 979 Replies • 99541 Views

Word association game

Answering machine


When I say misread you say...

Mon Mar 15, 2021 1:34 am • 979 Replies • 99541 Views

Random: Favorite Horror movies?

Every season is spooky season,

So night of the living dead (original) is just a timeless masterpiece, best seen in black and white .

Blair witch project will always have a special place in my he ...

Mon Dec 28, 2020 1:57 pm • 18 Replies • 4216 Views

The ^ < v game

^ Is quite an overexcitable sort .

< Will suck toes if asked.

V. Thinks the first line of this post was out of order, but probably accurate.

Thu May 14, 2020 9:45 am • 31 Replies • 10195 Views

The ^ < v game

^ has the same problem I had remembering the symbols

< didn’t read the last post correctly

V Would rather I revealed a bit more about myself than I am

Wed May 13, 2020 4:49 pm • 31 Replies • 10195 Views