Hypnosis

You could be talking about impact play. You could be talking about bondage. You could be talking about the most superficial aspects of domination/submission. You're using exactly the same thinking and ...

Sat Aug 13, 2022 7:46 pm • 42 Replies • 10969 Views

Hypnosis

I want to offer a word of support for NCarraway. It is possible even to hypnotize oneself and use self-suggestion on yourself to change behavior/perceptions of pain etc. I used self-hypnosis extensive ...

Sat Aug 13, 2022 7:55 am • 42 Replies • 10969 Views

DDLG to help heal trauma

I would strongly encourage you to avoid trying to make your little cough up memories. Honestly, sometimes it can be a blessing not to remember. If you just focus on making her feel safe, even if that ...

Fri Aug 12, 2022 7:09 am • 25 Replies • 9111 Views

DDLG to help heal trauma

I'm going to go out on a limb and offer a different perspective. I was abused as a kid and went through twenty-five years of recovery. I have DID which used to be called Multiple Personality Disorder. ...

Fri Aug 12, 2022 4:58 am • 25 Replies • 9111 Views

Some real help needed

I think what Miss Bonnie was suggesting is that you TAKE CONTROL. Stop asking. Stop suggesting. Just tell her. Take the reins and take control. This is what D/s is. She says she wants you to be her Da ...

Sun May 15, 2022 8:47 am • 21 Replies • 6876 Views

Some real help needed

A lot of people mistake "submissive" with doing nothing. This is absolutely not the case. You should inform her that this is a two-way street where she has responsibilities to uphold her side of the e ...

Sun May 15, 2022 2:53 am • 21 Replies • 6876 Views

another alternative to sir thread

Or Jefe--Spanish for Boss

Thu May 12, 2022 1:27 pm • 27 Replies • 6617 Views

another alternative to sir thread

The gesture is a really good idea. The Japanese bow comes to mind. You could also use an honorific from another language such as "San", "Sensei", or "Señor" if none of the English ones are doing it fo ...

Thu May 12, 2022 1:23 pm • 27 Replies • 6617 Views

Seeking Advice: Sub Drop

My number one rule is: talk to your dominant and tell him how you're feeling. Just reconnecting to the person and getting your feelings off your chest really helps a lot. It shows you aren't alone and ...

Thu May 12, 2022 7:47 am • 18 Replies • 3317 Views

another alternative to sir thread

I should also add that honorifics are extremely impersonal and generic. The person's name is unique to them. There are millions of other guys calling themselves Sir and Master. No one else is using th ...

Tue May 10, 2022 10:21 pm • 27 Replies • 6617 Views