Old vs new guard

Honestly... I'd be wary of someone touting "old guard".
Kink us customizable and there is no "right" or "wrong" way to be a sub.
A lot of "old guard" comes from the beliefs in the gor books. Which ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 4:24 am • 82 Replies • 14502 Views

Call or not

Think of the 2 songs that Madonna Made look up these two song sure you heard of it make a anthem.
Madonna - Material Girl
Love is not who buys you diamonds and fur. Love is being treated very kindl ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 4:02 am • 26 Replies • 4977 Views

Call or not

Do not allow yourself to suffer because you think that your (potential) Dominant is “testing” you (as suggested above). There is no good reason for a reduction of communication that hasn’t been negoti ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 3:59 am • 26 Replies • 4977 Views

Call or not

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- Context is everything.
- What was agreed ? - What was the norm (approx. 2 days) and for how long did this occur, to become expected - weeks, months, years ???
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The 'drop-off' ( depending on ...

Mon Jun 27, 2022 3:54 am • 26 Replies • 4977 Views

Permission to cum

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- Personally,... Regardless of ~remote / long distance or local - I only use the DENIAL of orgasm for a short intense period,... prior to an arranged meet / session.
- So,... There's no teasing o ...

Sun Jun 26, 2022 7:53 am • 31 Replies • 8536 Views

Attraction and profile pictures

What sageflame wrote is very true. But some folks outside looks are all that matter. Pretty is as pretty does or so I was raised to hear.

Beauty fades and often some grow into their own kind of be ...

Sun Jun 19, 2022 11:32 pm • 63 Replies • 21569 Views

Re: Permission to cum

I am not allowed to cum without permission. Whenever I ask it’s usually a no . And I say please let me cum and I’ll do anything! And he says okay give me suggestions on what you will do for me to allo ...

Sat Jun 18, 2022 4:52 am • 31 Replies • 8536 Views

Attraction and profile pictures

I feel that there must be a mutual attraction. Sometimes it’s a physical attraction. Occasionally, there is an attraction to a personality that can overcome the lack of physical desire.

I understa ...

Sat Jun 18, 2022 4:29 am • 63 Replies • 21569 Views

Re: Permission to cum

I am not allowed to cum without permission. Whenever I ask it’s usually a no . And I say please let me cum and I’ll do anything! And he says okay give me suggestions on what you will do for me to allo ...

Sat Jun 18, 2022 4:10 am • 31 Replies • 8536 Views

Re: Permission to cum

I am not allowed to cum without permission. Whenever I ask it’s usually a no . And I say please let me cum and I’ll do anything! And he says okay give me suggestions on what you will do for me to allo ...

Tue Jun 14, 2022 2:20 am • 31 Replies • 8536 Views