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Gave Up Sub/Dom Relationship-Feel Lost

P.s You’re already starting from such a strong foundation of having that trust, communication, bond and willingness to explore together. Patience and grace towards eachother while you learn to navigat ...

Fri Jul 05, 2024 7:33 am • 20 Replies • 3761 Views

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Gave Up Sub/Dom Relationship-Feel Lost

Fearful avoidant attachment or dismissive avoidant attachment

I'm fairly familiar with avoidant attachment styles. As I am classic dismissive avoidant. It stems from childhood. If you were emotionally neglected as a child, you begin to blame yourself and see yo ...

Mon Jul 01, 2024 3:07 am • 16 Replies • 3185 Views

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Fearful avoidant attachment or dismissive avoidant attachment

Not willing to compromise on

Kissing. They have to be a good kisser. No ifs, ands, or buts.

Sat Jun 29, 2024 11:07 am • 14 Replies • 3528 Views

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Not willing to compromise on

Is it consent or is it something more?

For me personally, it depends greatly on the person I’m playing with, and the scene we’re planning on sharing. If it’s someone I know well and trust and it’s simply a free-flowing scene that doesn’t h ...

Sat Jun 29, 2024 11:01 am • 13 Replies • 2577 Views

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Is it consent or is it something more?

Give and Take

I think its a personal preference but as others stated, reciprocity is a wonderful thing. But it's up to each dynamic how they proceed and what's important to them.
I love giving pleasure, so i love ...

Thu Jun 27, 2024 9:26 pm • 10 Replies • 2064 Views

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Little Vixie,

Was orel sex discussed before y'all decided to become a relationship? He told you he doesn't muff dive? And you said?
Or is this information that you got afterwards?

How do you ...

Wed Jun 26, 2024 10:38 pm • 10 Replies • 2064 Views

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What do you think of subs owning other subs?

I think at some point in our journey we all reach a point of deciding if our journey is about finding out who we are, or adhering to an idea of who we think we need to be to fit a concept.
For a lif ...

Sun Jun 23, 2024 11:45 pm • 14 Replies • 3382 Views

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What do you think of subs owning other subs?

I love this thought process.

I think it's very doable. The people involved though, may have to have a few separate rules that apply to the sub having a sub.

When I first removed into this, I e ...

Sat Jun 22, 2024 4:59 am • 14 Replies • 3382 Views

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What do you think of subs owning other subs?

Turn offs in new conversations

You two should get a room.

Hell No. What it is people are never fucking satisfied.

I fucking QUIT, THESE people that ain't never mofo going to be happy.

FJC. ALMIGHTY.

Maybe two rooms ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 6:52 am • 113 Replies • 29520 Views

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Turn offs in new conversations

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Turn offs in new conversations

I should have known better than to give further explanation.

Why?

I basically said, “You do you.” in my response. I originally asked the question because I find it odd. Still do. As far as I ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 3:58 am • 113 Replies • 29520 Views

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Turn offs in new conversations