A Struggling Dom

I agree with MasterBear! This is your personal journey and it doesn’t matter what others think, as long as what you’re doing is consensual and done safely.

Everyone has a personal preference with a ...

Thu Jan 10, 2019 6:10 am • 24 Replies • 14883 Views

A Struggling Dom

I judge all the time.
What I let come out my mouth is a different matter.

I tend not to care about the age unless they say they are 22 with 10 years experience. Then I just move on.


I alw ...

Thu Jan 10, 2019 6:01 am • 24 Replies • 14883 Views

A Struggling Dom

One of the best Doms i've met and most fun, was very young. But he was so natural at it and humble and eager to learn, yet strong and knew what he wanted and went from there.

I would never have ...

Thu Jan 10, 2019 5:55 am • 24 Replies • 14883 Views

A Struggling Dom

Age is not a factor for me. Maturity, respect, emotional and financial stability, honesty, communication, knowledge, and consistency, ect is more important to me.
Being a Dom is a lot of responsibili ...

Thu Jan 10, 2019 5:36 am • 24 Replies • 14883 Views

A Struggling Dom

Hi @ Dom Con, in all honesty... what stood out to me the most here, is 5 subs in 6 years. Something in that suggests to me that there is an instability within whatever you have happening in your dynam ...

Thu Jan 10, 2019 5:32 am • 24 Replies • 14883 Views

A Struggling Dom

Personally, i know i like someone older then me and because im newer i need someone with some experience. Seeing as how you have 8 years experience, i dont believe with be a problem for most. Beyond t ...

Thu Jan 10, 2019 5:24 am • 24 Replies • 14883 Views

A Struggling Dom

Honestly, you would be a no to me because of your age. Many submissive women my age look for a man who would also fit into their vanilla life, which usually precludes an age gap. Maybe if I were 18, ...

Thu Jan 10, 2019 5:20 am • 24 Replies • 14883 Views

A Struggling Dom

The only person you need to prove how "dom~ly" you are to, is your submissive. No one else really matters (in the general plan of life) as long as what you are doing is SSC (or at least RACK) and more ...

Thu Jan 10, 2019 5:18 am • 24 Replies • 14883 Views

A Struggling Dom

Good Evening All,

Firstly Thank you for taking the time to read this Post, it is greatly appreciated.

So the reason for this post is, I am at a loss as a Dom, and have been for a while...

I h ...

Tue Jan 08, 2019 1:15 am • 24 Replies • 14883 Views

Age In The BDSM and D/s Lifestyle

Hello all,

Firstly can I say thank you all for your comments, I'm simply blown away by how many I have received this far already, and thank you all for each of your replies and comments on this po ...

Thu Oct 18, 2018 4:37 pm • 9 Replies • 5446 Views