I think that switching is best.

Most people are focused on the power aspect of BDSM. OK, I know this exists. I don't necessarily subscribe to it but rather focus on the stimulus aspect of the pain/pleasure dynamic. BDSM has plenty o ...

Mon Apr 20, 2020 11:27 pm • 21 Replies • 11927 Views

Finding Balance in our Christian home

I am a switch. If I partake in either dom/sub I am not condemned by God if I do it with a mate that I am married to ( * if I have penetrative sex ). If I don't demean or degrade the other partner. I ...

Tue Mar 03, 2020 2:50 am • 21 Replies • 9172 Views

I think that switching is best.

Ingénue where have you been? I am so glad you arrived and woke us up. I was beginning to feel like Rumpelstiltskin.
Fortunately we don't have to jump for every post or discussion. Now lets toss a f ...

Tue Mar 03, 2020 2:21 am • 21 Replies • 11927 Views

Switch off

This problem with online is that you don't know the person like you would if you were physically present with them. You have to meet people to get to really know them. Sure you can get something from ...

Sat Feb 22, 2020 7:51 pm • 26 Replies • 7412 Views

Kinky Christian?

Max if your making a point you sure took a rather lengthy and rambling route to do it. Now getting to the point of your " Thank you Creator. Now I am not sure if what you stated is what he wants to h ...

Sat Feb 22, 2020 2:26 am • 60 Replies • 30240 Views

Kinky Christian?

I am a christian and I think that God wants us to love one another. If your a dom simply beats/tortures another person as part of your BDSM experience and it includes a lot of humiliation and abuse th ...

Thu Feb 20, 2020 11:49 pm • 60 Replies • 30240 Views

What is more important -Compatibility or Chemistry

Compatibility and Chemistry are separate in our thinking but in reality I think that both are present in relationships that just don't die after meeting someone for the first time.
They are also sepa ...

Wed Feb 12, 2020 11:33 pm • 17 Replies • 5677 Views

Finding Balance in our Christian home

We have some interesting replies to this discussion and we really went on a completely different tangent that didn't really touch on the OP's original question or statement.
Let analyze this a little ...

Wed Feb 12, 2020 11:10 pm • 21 Replies • 9172 Views

Giving Up

Sure the topic is giving up but at least two have given up OR they decided to block everyone. OK that happens ? sometime ?
As long as we lost our original OP ( original poster ) we can take this off ...

Mon Feb 03, 2020 11:47 pm • 22 Replies • 10816 Views

Giving Up

When you quit you automatically lose. How can you succeed when you simply " give up " at the first resistance. Impatience is not a virtue.
You have youth on your side but what happens in the future, ...

Sat Feb 01, 2020 11:20 pm • 22 Replies • 10816 Views