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Posts by MisterAshmodai(dom male)

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Possessiveness

It is not a desire. I am, at best, neutral on the role play; legitimately disdainful of the character trait. I take in the role because it appeals to some of my subs, and as a Dom, I love the challeng ...

Wed Mar 03, 2021 9:01 pm • 23 Replies • 10326 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Possessiveness

202

Possessiveness

I do, in fact, separate these things. Quite effectively, I might add.
I engage in possessive play, while truly considering possessiveness a weakness of the spirit brought on by poor self esteem.
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Wed Mar 03, 2021 3:48 am • 23 Replies • 10326 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Possessiveness

203

Possessiveness

I do not know if I could view it without the qualifier of circuitous justification, but if it legitimately works for you, then that is as valid as any other approach.
Thank you for sharing.

Tue Mar 02, 2021 8:45 am • 23 Replies • 10326 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Possessiveness

204

Possessiveness

Agreed.
Though, I am more curious about the mentality and reasoning behind those who embrace legitimate possessiveness and jealousy as positive traits in a Dom.

Mon Mar 01, 2021 7:11 am • 23 Replies • 10326 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Possessiveness

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Possessiveness

And, would this feeling be diminished if it turned out that the Dom was able to control that possessiveness and allow you to continue your interactions unhindered by an emotional need? Or, would that ...

Mon Mar 01, 2021 6:38 am • 23 Replies • 10326 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Possessiveness

206

Possessiveness

I am especially curious about the practice of meeting a Dom, then at the command of that Dom, refraining from even speaking to other Doms or outright deleting your account.
At what point does this b ...

Mon Mar 01, 2021 4:25 am • 23 Replies • 10326 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Possessiveness

207

Possessiveness

As a Dom, I understand the allure of the fantastic. I constantly work on my ability to portray character traits that I do not actually possess in my vanilla life (cruelty, tedium, sadism, authoritaria ...

Mon Mar 01, 2021 4:21 am • 23 Replies • 10326 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Possessiveness

208

InstaDoms on this site

While having an active, open ‘bad Dom’ database is an unacceptable practice for its own reasons, there is really nothing stopping anyone from sharing their particular bad experiences without giving na ...

Fri Feb 26, 2021 12:21 am • 16 Replies • 7271 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Absolute Beginners

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InstaDoms on this site

209

Ethical Non-Monogamy

We may be getting a little hung up on labels here. The intent of this thread was an earnest conversation between those who entertain the choice to have multiple partners and those who do not. The conv ...

Wed Feb 24, 2021 4:23 pm • 53 Replies • 19222 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Ethical Non-Monogamy

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Ethical Non-Monogamy

The decision would be based on an assessment of all variables in as unbiased of a manner as is possible.
The ideal method would be to try both scenarios and see which one you find the most beneficia ...

Tue Feb 23, 2021 7:45 am • 53 Replies • 19222 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Ethical Non-Monogamy